Sigshot552 Posted January 19, 2017 Share Posted January 19, 2017 +Two weeks ago I met this amazing girl through a mutual friend. Since she lives a couple hours away, we have been texting nonstop. We have a lot in common and both said that we like each other. However, I screwed up. Since we had been talking so much we started asking deeper questions. I asked how many people she has slept with. I asked this because I don't sleep around and its important for me to date someone who has the same values. Anyways she answered honestly and so did I and we were both cool about it. A few days later we were talking and she said that she doesn't like cops and I said "It's the handcuffs huh". She freaked out and now thinks I am just after her body. I was just trying to make a joke and I seriously didn't mean to offend her. She said I made multiple jokes like that but I don't remember do so. Anyways I apologized profusely and she finally acknowledged that I meant no harm and legitimately was sorry. We were supposed to go to a movie together with friends but she asked if she could bail.. only to later say that she wanted to end it and blocked me on Facebook. I panicked.... I have never met such an amazing girl. I know that she has been hurt by her ex and so she pushes people away if she feels they are using her. So again I panicked and texted her, tried to call her, texted our friend... I was even on my way down to apologize which she told me to turn around. She apologized the next morning and felt really bad about it. So I forgave her. As we started talking again she said she wanted to go to church with me sometime, only to later say that she is done. The next morning she texted me telling me to delete her number. I want to make this right! I know what I said was stupid and way too soon. I don't date hardly ever so I don't pick up on signals well. She never told me it bothered her until it was too late. I just want a chance to show her that I am an incredible guy who really does care for her. I don't want to sleep with her, I just want to really get to know her and spend some time with her. Is there any way I can fix this? A friend told me that I should just lay low for like a month and then try again. So I was thinking about bringing her flowers her favorite chocolate and wine, plus a card. I really want to make this right... I know it's only been two weeks, but I just have a feeling about her. Any advice would be much appreciated. Link to comment
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