Why does my boyfriend like to pleasured and [masturbate] in this way?

[chanelaris]

I believe I am a fairly non judgemental person. My boyfriend loves his own ass and loves me to spank/squeeze it during sex which I like to do as anything that turns him on, turns me on. Excuse me if I sound weird myself however I find it odd that my boyfriend loves me to give him hand/head and even loves to masturbate when he is in doggy position. Basically on knees, leaning forward with ass in the air. He loves me to go from behind. He also loves squatting which he finds pleasurable. He finds it easiest to cum in those positions and of course during sex which is usually him on top but finds it hard to cum laying down on his back if I give him hand/head. Explanation?

[tiredofvampires]

Are you male or female?

 

Everyone's body is different, how their body feels when stimulated in various ways. Other than very obvious erotic and erogenous areas where nerves are dense, turn-ons are pretty individual, and there's no "reason" to be wired a certain way. So it's really pointless to ask "why" someone feels sensation the way they do. It's like asking, "Why do you like onions?" You just do. And some don't.

 

One thing is for sure: if you ask the right person (him), and he doesn't have an answer, we certainly can't answer that for him.

[Wiseman2]

Is this cybersex, since you live in different countries?

My boyfriend of almost half a year and I regularly talk about how our future will pan out because currently we are both long distance. I have to either have a job or be married to a local man so I have to leave as I have neither.

[chanelaris]

Is this cybersex, since you live in different countries?

 

 

No no! Real life 😊

[chanelaris]

Are you male or female?

 

Everyone's body is different, how their body feels when stimulated in various ways. Other than very obvious erotic and erogenous areas where nerves are dense, turn-ons are pretty individual, and there's no "reason" to be wired a certain way. So it's really pointless to ask "why" someone feels sensation the way they do. It's like asking, "Why do you like onions?" You just do. And some don't.

 

One thing is for sure: if you ask the right person (him), and he doesn't have an answer, we certainly can't answer that for him.

 

 

Female!

 

Good point - he may just prefer this way.