Londongirl15 Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 I bumped into someone who used to go to my old school who used to have a crush on me years ago. He stopped me and we exchanged numbers just as 'friends'. A couple of weeks later he called me and asked if I wanted to meet up so we did. We casually went to a desert place and he explained to me that he really liked me and asked what I thought of him. I told him I saw him as a friend even though he was really cute. Eventually a couple of weeks later I realised how much of a gentleman he was so I said yes to being his girlfriend. This phase only lasted 3 months until we had our first major argument (I got annoyed at him because of something so I didn't respond to his calls or texts for 2 days). After that it never went back to normal. He didn't want to talk to me much even though I called and text to say I missed him. He said he felt the same but he still never asked to see me after that. Now here's the weird bit. I can't stop thinking about him... despite the fact that I only like him as a friend at first. I can't stop thinking about how much he liked me and cared about me and even started to say he loved me. I can't understand how he made me fall for him so badly and then after one argument he didn't want to know anymore. The weird part is I deleted him from snapchat because i didn't want to see what he was doing... but when we had our 'random' phone call he asked me to add him back... so now I see his snapchat posts and think about him even more day and night. I have briefly explained to him that it really upset me by not talking to me anymore but I'm not sure he feels the same, despite the fact that he always said he thought he liked me more than I liked him. Now and then I respond to his snaps with a vid and he responds saying how pretty I look. It still doesn't make sense to me why he is acting so distant and I really want him back... what should I do? Link to comment
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