Should this be a reason to break up?

[naijababe]

My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years. in july we broke up for 5 months. I broke up with him because we got into an argument and the following day he posted another womans picture as his dP on whatsapp. I took it as cheating and ended things.He tried so hard and after nearly 6 months i decided to rekindle things.While at his house one day, a lady showed up, refusing to leave and claiming he was ing both of us. Mind you we were just in the works of getting back together. I asked him who she is and he said he had a brief fling with her. He told her that was getting back with his ex but she wouldnt let go. One time while at his house the girl kept calling and texting, he would show me everything she is saying and he wouldnt reply. I asked him to block her which he did. They remained friends on facebook for another 3 weeks and then they were no longer friends. Im not sure who deleted whom.Fast forward yesterday while chatting with friends i receive a message request on facebook messenger. I accepted it and it was screenshots of my boyfriend and another girl talking on instagram. In the message he told her where he lives, she told him where she lives, he then asked her if she wanted to be friends and hangout. The girl was like sure as long as your girlfriend is okay with it.She asked if he had a girlfriend and he replied "nah nothing serious". she gave him her number and he called her. I decided to call the number myself to find out who it is. When i called the number the girl said that it wasnt her who messaged me the screenshots. She is friends with the fling and she asked her to try to talk to my boyfriend to see if he would fall for it and obviously he did. Her friend then decided to create a fake facebook account and send me a message "this is the man you bragging about". I drove over to my bf house and while in the bathroom i asked him if we could talk. He looked at me and walked away to his living room. He has a married roommate whom we often ask advice from. I decided to explain everything to her. When she tried talking to my boyfriend he quickly shut her down and said he didnt want to hear it. I then decided to leave his house and sent him all the screenshots. He read the messages but never bothered to reply. I havent heard nothing from him all day long and he has been online throughout the day. I have been through so much bs with this man and i seriously dont know how to take this. Will he ever change? Should i just walk away once and foreal? I have no issues with him having friends but to deny that you actually have a girlfriend tells me that you have intentions to be more than just friends with them. What do i do in this situation. Should i take his silence as a sign and move on? His actions are really hurting me and things have been so great between us since we got back together.

[radiance]

I'm sorry you've had such a bad time of things... Honestly, I think you should move on. It seems like you don't really trust him - with good reason - and he's not ready to commit to a serious relationship. This doesn't seem like it will work. Move on before he has the chance to deceive you.

[naijababe]

He always tell me that i dont trust him but that is because he doesnt give me enough reason to trust him. I used to dig through his emails and social media because of him breaking my trust in the beginning of our relationship. I have stopped snooping around since we got back together. Yet I am still finding things out one way or another. Why is he refusing to atleast hear me out or talk? If he does not want a serious relationship why wont he let me go and date around as much as he want. we were apart for 5 months, why did he still beg and force us to get back together only to go back acting this way?

[Applewhite]

If he does not want a serious relationship why wont he let me go and date around as much as he want. we were apart for 5 months, why did he still beg and force us to get back together only to go back acting this way?

 

Because he can.

 

*NOT* because he loves you or intends to be faithful obviously.