Kaykayxo Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 Lately I have been struggling with wanting to have a healthy relationship with my partner however things in the past are constantly being brought up to surface. Most notably was a few months ago we were not on good terms and he posted inappropriate photos of me online and exposed me and my family (on Facebook for all to see). I forgave him at the time (before I even knew the extent of it, I never saw the posts before they were deleted.). However, it seems to keep coming back up. People will ask me if I am ok (not knowing I did not post those things), even today I went to search up an old employer and realized she had BLOCKED me...I chalked this up to she must have seen the posts because there is no other reason why she would do that. It is something that I want to forget because I know I chose to, and I don't want this resentment. He hasn't done anything hurtful since..it is just difficult when I am reminded of the incident to not want to feel angry all over again. It is conflicting because part of me does love him a lot, but there is also a nasty side that harbors resentment. I guess I just wonder if anyone has ever had something very wrong go on in their relationship that they forgave, and how you were able to get over that completely? I want to purge these feelings out of my system because I know he would not do this again. Link to comment
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