Vfay75 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 My bf broke up with me after 4 years of long distance.. because of the "nagging" made him feel less than and stressed.. when really all I was doing was telling him to communicate.... He stopped coaching a kids team and became interested in making beats with a few of his guy friends at a studio with ALL of his free time before/after work... Meanwhile I barely get to see him but once or twice a month.. So he decided to break it off so he won't have to hear my mouth abt him spending all of his free time when he's not at work with them.. Am I wrong for wanting my time !? That was in November and I stopped contacting him until January he "missed" me so he came to see me and the visit seemed like we were in a relationship still plus he wanted to be reassured that I was not interested in anyone else.. informing me tht he wasn't.. So when he leaves he says we're working on us the next day he calls me his gf we eventually have a disagreement the next day because I was still confused on what we were to eachother and he says he just wants to hang with his friends without the extra but we can go back to how it was before if I feel some type of way.. When I only asked a question and he replies this is why we are just friends!!!! Today is Thursday and I haven't spoken to him Since that convo on Monday... am I supposed to think.. .... Need males advice in particular ! He's 22 btw and I'm 21 Link to comment
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