sunshinefm Posted January 11, 2017 Share Posted January 11, 2017 Hey guys. I recently went through a break up (4 days ago) with my ex who i was with for almost 3 years (our 3 year anniversary is in less than a month). I was 17 when we first started dating, and he was 19, so we grew up together. I graduated high school, i started college, he graduated college, turning 18, him turning 21, we were there for huge self-evolving milestones. And I have been told im so young and i'll find someone but the issue with being this young is that my identity was basically created WITH him, so its really hard for me to move in because a lot of myself was evolved with the help of him being there. Backstory is that he recently got a job where he works 12 hours a day and we had broken up twice before but this time he had told me he cant be in a relationship and he needs to focus on himself (the other time he had broken up with me was basically because he was stressed, he cannot handle stress AT ALL). So i was just wondering if any of you have any happy stories of how you are okay right now? It helps reading advice but it helps even more knowing people survived! Thank you guys, how incredible is this forum? Sincerely, Sunshine Link to comment
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