Jack9810 Posted January 11, 2017 Share Posted January 11, 2017 My ex boyfriend and I broke up a month ago just after our one year. We had a pretty good relationship and spent a lot of time together and was always very happy when we were together, but we would fight while texting. He was stubborn and wouldn't open up about what was bothering him and so was I.. In the last few months I've been going through an enormous amount of family related issues that have really affected my attitude, and during our fights I've said some mean things I obviously didn't mean, but in the heat of the moment i said. He then unexpectedly broke up with me because of our fighting and he felt like I didn't want to be with him and was hurt from what I said. I regret it all so much and I've been working very hard to change how I handle stress and emotions. I'll admit I was devastated by the break up and still am honestly. About 2 weeks ago we began talking again and he told me how much he missed me and would like to get back together eventually. We talked for a couple days and then we ended up hanging out at his house watching a movie (after lots of persuasion on his part) It was a really good time and we talked about everything and I apologized for how I acted and explained why. We just talked and it was great for us both. He told me that he wants to be with me but doesn't know when, it could be a week or it could be a month. I told him I understood and accepted that it will take time. We continued to talk and a couple days after that he told me he is now unsure on what he wants and hasn't gotten over our fights and what I had said. He told me that he wants to be with me but is torn because he doesn't want it to happen again. So he said he wants to be friends because we don't fight that way and that he just wants to "see where things go" I accepted this and since then for about a week and a half we've talked almost all day everyday, which he initiates by sending a good morning text. There has been no fights, almost no flirting and he hasn't brought us up at all and neither have I. For now I'm just going with the flow and seeing what happens I guess, hoping that he'll be able to forgive me and want me back.. I just don't when or if I should bring us up or wait and let him do it? Obviously I want to be with him and will do everything I can to do so but I don't want to have all this hope if it doesn't go anywhere. Link to comment
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