Post one good thing about them being gone

[katara42]

I can (harmlessly) flirt again

[rtyu4567]

I don't miss him asking me what is wrong or what's the matter..........only to have me answer so he can basically get pissed and and throw a tissy. So yea he did not care what was wrong he basically wanted to fight or make me feel worst than I might have already felt. Sometimes, there was not even anything wrong with me at all, he would still ask, it's like he wanted a rise out of me, always fishing for drama.

[katara42]

That I can go away for the weekend with my girls without it becoming a huge drama

[luisannalui]

Bed is all for myself.

[Naomi99]

No more hiding my food.

[Trinity11]

Small one, but my Snowboarding has actually improved since he's gone. I'm more likely to try new things (and succeed) because the people around me inform me what a new feature coming up is like, then i get the confidence to try after they do it. Then we all congratulate each other on small achievements.

 

My ex never did this.

[ShatteredMan]

My new girl wants to do things like cook dinner together, challenge each other, grow in positive ways......my ex wanted to get a free meal, drink wine and have sex. You would think this would be all you need, but it gets old.

[mgsportsfan252]

I have actually enjoyed going on dates again. I recently went on 2 dates with 2 girls I actually really liked. Hoping something comes out of one of them but also going to take it slow and not rush things and enjoy myself.

 

Also my ex reached out a few weeks ago after my dad passed reiterating wanting to be friends. I politely declined and told her why I didn't want to be friends and now when I see her at work she ignores me and doesn't even say hello back to me. Pretty petty that she was able to toss me to the curb but when I decline her let's be friends offer suddenly she is cold/salty about it.

[luisannalui]

I have more time to think of me.

[ShatteredMan]

I love how I don't have to walk on egg shells anymore and wonder what I did or say that may trip him off. I don't have verbal insults coming in my phone for days on end.

 

Did this in a relationship for 3 years. It was hell having to think tactically all the time while I was in the relationship. It complete freedom when I got out of that one.....

 

My positive thing for not being with my most recent ex: Valentine's Day was cheaper and appreciated far more by the new girl in my life.

[beast1125]

I can do whatever I want whenever I want without feeling guilty about it.

[rtyu4567]

I can meet someone better.

[ShatteredMan]

I no longer have to "prove myself" to her.

[downright]

Less worrying and don't have to consider how my actions would affect her. More free time to do what I want and love.

[rtyu4567]

I no longer feel pathetic waiting around wondering at what time he will call or i should call him. I can now look forward to a normal relationship.

[Bob2526]

more money In my bank account and I have more money to spend on myself... can I list more??? Lol but I still miss her for some reason

[rtyu4567]

No more drama

[Naomi99]

I can go as long as I want without showering.

[Lisii]

No more drama's

[rtyu4567]

I dont feel that pain of being rejected and stomped on when I was vulnerable and piratically begging for your love. It's great that I no longer give you that satisfaction and I now give myself love and respect since you have been gone.

[Coconutcandell]

I can buy a box of popsicle and its not empty the next day

[luisannalui]

Today, nothing.

[rtyu4567]

No more wasting valuable time.

[Vivi0476]

His pi$$ poor attitude when he wakes up and his stupid rule of me not talking to him until he's completely awake. I wake up in a beautiful mood every day and want to say "good morning! Do u want coffee?" Only to get growled at for being sweet. Hey! Eff that guy. He can get his own coffee.

[rtyu4567]

I no longer wonder what he will complain about next.