Vivi0476 Posted January 11, 2017 Share Posted January 11, 2017 Thought if this because of another thread. Post something positive about your life that's better since they've been gone. I love how much cleaner my house is and how it stays clean. I can think of 20 more but I'll start with that. Link to comment
Viceroy Posted January 11, 2017 Share Posted January 11, 2017 I love how I don't have to get an oil change, and fill my gas tank up as much!!! My ex was one of those people who always wanted to go out! Link to comment
katara42 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 I can watch whatever I want. Link to comment
Vivi0476 Posted January 12, 2017 Author Share Posted January 12, 2017 His YouTube obsession. He'd project these stupid videos to the TV and I'd have to watch them. And his taste in music changed and it was sososo bad. So no more awful, not funny, bad-taste-in-music, videos. Link to comment
mgsportsfan252 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 I don't have to go to bars anymore after work. That seemed like the only thing she liked to do other than cuddle in her bed. I've saved some money, lost some weight and get to unwind the way I want after a long work day. Link to comment
membername Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 I love how I don't have to walk on egg shells anymore and wonder what I did or say that may trip him off. I don't have verbal insults coming in my phone for days on end. Link to comment
GeekLover Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 I'm going to second the walking on eggshells comment. I don't need to worry if I answer my phone fast enough, say something that will get misconstrued or having someone completely misunderstand my actions as negative when they were meant to be out of love and thoughtfulness. Link to comment
Vivi0476 Posted January 13, 2017 Author Share Posted January 13, 2017 Oh! The dog sleeping in bed with me. He never allowed it, right now she's keeping my feet warm. I can't sleep, but she's here keeping me company now. Link to comment
tianchris Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 Going to 3rd the walking on egg shells, thats prolly the biggest thing i am noticing, the fact that i can move, talk, smile without comments on doing it wrong, doing it at all or doing it wierd. Also suddenly i can actually be with friends without feeling like the worst guy in the world.. And really what someone else said, not having to wonder if every action of mine is considered bad intentions, instead of love and a huge hired army of thoughts just for her, every word misinterpreted, every message misunderstood, missing a smiley in a text? Apocalypse now. Link to comment
danewillow Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 Only one thing?? How do I pick? I do not miss having an adult living with me who thinks mommy will still take care of everything. I'm nobody's mommy. I will never even date a spoiled man again. Link to comment
Scotty123 Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 I love having the dog on my bed ... it's wonderful Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 Eating stuff I can't stand and pretending to like it. Tofu hot dogs come to mind Link to comment
Vivi0476 Posted January 14, 2017 Author Share Posted January 14, 2017 I love having the dog on my bed ... it's wonderful Its the BEST! Perfect snugglers. Plus if there's a noise in the house or outside she wakes me up to tell me. I feel safer. Link to comment
Scotty123 Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 Totally ... dogs are the best ! And they don't take the remote and try and make you glad to watch crappy stuff on TV ! Link to comment
Vivi0476 Posted January 14, 2017 Author Share Posted January 14, 2017 Watching my savings account get bigger and bigger bc its not being spent on partying. Link to comment
rtyu4567 Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 There are several things that are good about him being gone. One of them is the obsessiveness he had in nitpicking and looking for anything he could, even the smallest of things i might have done and using it against me reminding me over and over again. It was torture. And im glad i dont have to deal with that anymore. That is good! Link to comment
katara42 Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 I can go for a drink with a girlfriend and not have to fight about it with him or feel like I'm doing something wrong. And that's what I'm doing tonight Link to comment
lillorenzo23 Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 I've been spending more time with my family and feel closer with my parents now than I did before. Link to comment
Shegottaberigh Posted January 16, 2017 Share Posted January 16, 2017 I don't have to stay up late to talk to them, listen to their ignorant arrogant opinions about life like he knew , watching him mistreat his mother, spend money on gifts for him, and accepting requests from cute guys, pursuing the spiritual goals I want that he used to be against, I don't have to make them the highlight of my life anymore and that has allowed friends, family and personal and spiritual goals to come into scene. Link to comment
Vivi0476 Posted January 16, 2017 Author Share Posted January 16, 2017 No more of his stupid D-bag friends hanging around and staying here all the time, eating through the groceries, turning up the thermostat, and grossing up my bathroom. Link to comment
TiredOfDating Posted January 16, 2017 Share Posted January 16, 2017 My boyfriend wasn't a douche bag. But I like that I'll have time to get stuff done around my house. Link to comment
rtyu4567 Posted January 16, 2017 Share Posted January 16, 2017 I dont have to hang around waiting for his phonecall till the afternoon when he is not busy. And be afraid to ask why he doesnt call me earlier in the day for 2 lousy seconds to wish me a good day. Basically i dont feel pathetic anymore. Link to comment
littleel672 Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 Getting the bed all to myself! Link to comment
Vivi0476 Posted January 18, 2017 Author Share Posted January 18, 2017 Spending money on whatever I want without having to run every purchase through him first. Meanwhile, he could blow $200 at the casino's and if I questioned him it was a blowup Link to comment
Vivi0476 Posted January 22, 2017 Author Share Posted January 22, 2017 Cooking what I want for dinner and not worrying about his pickiness Link to comment
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