I need help..

[Mike210922]

I am in love with my ex, yet I am married.

I cannot stop thinking about my ex, even though I haven't seen her in over 10 years. My ex and I talk almost every day and she says when I am ready, she will leave her husband to be with me.... what is wrong with me? My wife is beautiful and successful, yet I still want my ex.... please help

[gebaird]

My ex and I talk almost every day

 

As long as this is the case, your heart will be with your ex. Your wife deserves better, no? Cut off the ex so you can devote your whole self to your marriage, or divorce your wife so she can be free to find someone who is fully committed to her. No good can come of trying to live in two worlds.

[Clio]

If you love your ex and she loves you, why did you break up? How did you end up being married to other people? Are there children involved? How did you two reconnect?

 

Regardless, you need to make a choice and stick to it. Talking to your ex is emotional cheating. When your wife finds out, your marriage is going to suffer. What is it that makes you want to throw away all that you have with your wife for a past relationship that didn't work out? What is it that is lacking from your current life?

[Lester]

If not trolling..., the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

[Likeaboss20]

I am in love with my ex, yet I am married.

I cannot stop thinking about my ex, even though I haven't seen her in over 10 years. My ex and I talk almost every day and she says when I am ready, she will leave her husband to be with me.... what is wrong with me? My wife is beautiful and successful, yet I still want my ex.... please help

 

I know someone who left their wife for an ex and it did not end well at all. The ex was a completely different person then what they used to be. And then when he wanted his wife back it was too late. Remember there was a reason you broke up and it might not be the same the next time around. You haven't seen her in 10 years. A lot can change in that time. If you are a lil unhappy or feel like you are missing something why not talk to your wife and work on the relationship first. Maybe right now you are just bored and need that spark again.

[Pretzel]

It's really disrespectful to your wife that you are still talking to your ex every day. Imagine if she had constant contact with someone else behind your back? Cut contact and give your wife some respect!!! And if you don't want to be with her anymore you should tell her sooner rather than later so she can meet someone else who is more present and devoted.