jmann45 Posted January 11, 2017 Share Posted January 11, 2017 Met a girl a few months ago and we became best friends. then became bf/gf for a couple months.. today i was really stressed and just wanted a day off from her. she continuously invited me over so i decided to go over and kicked it at her house for a couple hours. Now that i look back, i was just in a horrible mood. at one point she asked if we can go out and eat, but i just wasnt in the mood. I ended up leaving after a couple hours and texted her saying that im going to be busy for a few days and ill text her when i have time. (we usually talk every single day at least 3 times a day and facetiming which got annoying).. and she texted back, saying we should take a step back. I was not expecting this.. i just asked her to be my valentine for next month, yesterday.. and she was really happy. but anyway, i texted back and said yeah i agree i have lots going on right now and its good if we take a step back. Then i texted her again after a few hours saying that i wanted to talk to her on the phone real quick (to let her know that im aware i was in a bad mood today) .. she texted back saying that she thinks its better if we remain friends. this literally broke me. I really liked this girl. im not sure if this all happened from today or if shes been talking to someone else all this time. Either way, im broken tonight. She was my best friend and girl friend. we got alone so well. I just responded saying, well your choice, later. Im beyond broken. but i think i will go no contact. Her father usually has her buy stuff through me at my work (clothing ect) and im think she'll be calling in to buy clothing sooner or later. But my plan is to just leave it business and not take it any further and have a formal conversation if she ever does call. Im just hurt right now.. day 0 no contact today. day 1 starting tomorrow. the longest ive done nc is 5 days in past relationships..ive only tried it about twice before... Im very weak at this. Wish me luck. Im just confused and lost right now. Link to comment
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