Trentraptor353 Posted January 10, 2017 Share Posted January 10, 2017 Recently I have graduated high school and am now a freshman in college, and the girl I like is still in high school. We've been in some classes together and hung out once just over a year ago (just hung out, not a date). It went well in my opinion but for whatever reason we never really did again, but would occasionally make conversation in the hallways or during class. I am only recently starting to realize the extent of my feelings, but she never seemed really interested in me in that way, just friendly. There are many things I regret about this, (including just being an awkward guy in general and embarrassing myself multiple times), but probably the biggest mistake was not 'speaking up.' My friends all tell me to just drop this and get over it, but obviously that is easier said than done. This upcoming break I will be returning to my hometown for a couple weeks. Would it be okay if I let her know about this, and ask her out? Or would that indeed be "creepy "? Link to comment
Trimmer Posted January 10, 2017 Share Posted January 10, 2017 Recently I have graduated high school and am now a freshman in college, and the girl I like is still in high school. We've been in some classes together and hung out once just over a year ago (just hung out, not a date). It went well in my opinion but for whatever reason we never really did again, but would occasionally make conversation in the hallways or during class. I am only recently starting to realize the extent of my feelings, but she never seemed really interested in me in that way, just friendly. There are many things I regret about this, (including just being an awkward guy in general and embarrassing myself multiple times), but probably the biggest mistake was not 'speaking up.' My friends all tell me to just drop this and get over it, but obviously that is easier said than done. This upcoming break I will be returning to my hometown for a couple weeks. Would it be okay if I let her know about this, and ask her out? Or would that indeed be "creepy "? Well in this case you kind of missed the chance to do it. I still feel you should it's better to be rejected then to never know what could have been. I would do it so you can either move forward with this or get closure and move on. Link to comment
jujusamples Posted January 10, 2017 Share Posted January 10, 2017 I'd ask to go hang out as a friend and feel the situation out. You are also in two different places at the moment. Do you not think it will be difficult to start a relationship when you are away in a different town in college and she's still in high school? Link to comment
JDo Posted January 10, 2017 Share Posted January 10, 2017 Try meet up for a day, call it a date, or friends just hanging out. And see how you feel. No strings attached, nothing to lose, just a little fun. Try see if you can gage how she feels. You have nothing to lose, As trimmer said, it's better to be rejected then to never know what could have been. Good luck Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 10, 2017 Share Posted January 10, 2017 Sure, why not? Send her a text fb message whatever and tell her "I'll be in town from then until then, it would be great to get together and catch up". See what the response is and take it from there. If positive, set up a time, place, date. If nothing, drop it.This upcoming break I will be returning to my hometown for a couple weeks. Would it be okay if I let her know about this, and ask her out? Or would that indeed be "creepy "? Link to comment
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