zeldorh Posted January 10, 2017 Share Posted January 10, 2017 not sure what section I should put this in because its really a wide range of things i need help with so where do i even start... Hi my name is sam ,I am 23 i started off at a young age dating a girl I met at church.I was around 16 at the time (first girl i ever dated)... after talking for about 3 months started noticing that we had a lot in common so we started dating long story shot we broke up about a year ago.. and we have a beautiful 4 year old daughter together and im having the hardest time getting back into the dating game... from what i have heard from other women and weirdly guys across the board is that im a very handsome and attractive young man.. i have got numbers anywhere from like a 7.5 to like an 8.5 but i honestly don't feel it and feel like more like a 4 or 5 i have very bad self esteem problems in public but think i look damn good when im just around my family ... i guess one of the biggest reasons i don't feel very attractive is that i don't really have any dating experience at all but dont know how to hold a conversation with a women so they get turned off easy... Another major thing for me confidence wise is that my hair is starting to really thin out in the back and i feel like everyone is always secretly judging me in my head at least thats what im thinking... and another really bad problem is that when me and my ex were f buddy's for a while i noticed that it only took me like literally 5 mins to get off so that is another thing at really worries me if i do get with someone how that might affect even a one night stand kind of thing because no girl once a guy that cant last... should i see a doc or something about theses problems? i mean i used to last like an hour to 2 hours but i noticed that it only took her like 5 to 20 mins to get off and my stamina took a nose dive . advice would be great !!!! so basically to sum it up : *i have no sex drive hardly at all *i cant last more then like 5 mins (used to last 1 to 2 hours) * starting to go bald at 23 * no game at all sense i was basically tied down for almost all of my middle school and high school years *no confidence in social gatherings like that bar with friends Link to comment
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