Why doesn't he want me to see his story?

[rachelhue]

Hello!

 

My ex boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago and I've been in no contact for about 3 weeks. When we first broke up, he made it so I could not see his snapchat story and he told me he did it so I wouldn't have to worry more than I had to because he was drinking every night. He let me view his story for like 2 weeks after that (even though I didn't watch them) and then after new years after he drunk texted me, he made it so I couldn't view his story again. He kept all my friends on snapchat and he's just been posting about sports. I just don't understand why he would be doing this again.

[JaggerJim]

You have broken up, so he does not want you to see it.

[gebaird]

It will help your healing if you block/unfriend him on social media sites.

[sourhearts]

It doesn't exactly sound like you've been in NC with him.

 

When he drunk texted you, did you respond back?

 

He's just messing with your head. "Waaaa I'm going out drinking, I don't want you knowing where I'm at, who I'm with. Bla bla bla."

 

Don't feed into that. I would get rid of him on Snapchat all together.

 

It's funny, does he seriously go out of his way to block you and unblock you? Lame. I would just do him the favor.

[rachelhue]

I did not respond to his text and he hasn't tried to text me again after that. I feel like he is messing with me a little bit or doing me a favor but I'm not sure.

[Wiseman2]

Don't allow games in your life. Use your self-respect to delete unfollow unfriend and block him from all social media.

I did not respond to his text and he hasn't tried to text me again after that. I feel like he is messing with me a little bit or doing me a favor but I'm not sure.

[JaggerJim]

Don't allow games in your life. Use your self-respect to delete unfollow unfriend and block him from all social media.

 

I agree. I think games are being played on both sides.

[rachelhue]

I will delete him from my social media. I guess I was trying not to do all of that so I wouldn't look petty or anything. I would like him back in my life but I don't think he wants me in his

[sourhearts]

I understand the whole not wanting to look "petty". I have this thing in my head where it's like, I don't need to press a little social media block button to ignore you. My brain can do that well on it's own.

 

Butttttt ... he's the one being petty. So back at him. But make it forever. Like I keep saying in other posts, even to myself. If he/they wanted to work things out with us, there's other ways to get in touch. Like show up at your doorstep and work for what he let go. But he has to work HARD.

[rachelhue]

I understand the whole not wanting to look "petty". I have this thing in my head where it's like, I don't need to press a little social media block button to ignore you. My brain can do that well on it's own.

 

Butttttt ... he's the one being petty. So back at him. But make it forever. Like I keep saying in other posts, even to myself. If he/they wanted to work things out with us, there's other ways to get in touch. Like show up at your doorstep and work for what he let go. But he has to work HARD.

 

That's what I keep telling myself, if he wanted to get in contact with me he would. He is a nice guy so I'm conflicted as to whether he's doing this to be nice to me or to play games. I wasn't watching his stories from before anyways so playing games seems more likely.

[sourhearts]

Trust me hun, he's not trying to be nice. He's being a child. Don't play his juvenile game. You're better than that

[rachelhue]

Trust me hun, he's not trying to be nice. He's being a child. Don't play his juvenile game. You're better than that

 

I will take your word for it! We got to the same college and live in the same building so I'm hoping I don't run into him that often