very confused?

[dj145t]

So my ex and I have been seperated for a little over 4 months now. We texted each other new year's Eve, but at the end of the day she said she didn't want to catch up and that was the end of the conversation. Today a few days after we texted my ex's best friend (girl) hits me up on Instagram asking me saying "hey. How are you doing?" I am very confused why is she asking me that after my ex clearly didn't want to catch up after all this time. I haven't responded to the message and I don't know if I even should. The best friend has done this before, and the last time we got into a small convos , but at the end she ended up ignoring my last message leading to the one she just sent me about 2 months later, which is now. What should I do? Just ignore it or contact my ex?

[Hollyj]

Delete and block.

[Wiseman2]

Best to contact neither and ignore block, delete, unfollow, unfriend both and stay no contact. Do not contact your ex trying to stir up drama or jealousy or a cat-fight.

 

Ignoring them both is the way to move on and get above this. It gives them the impression that you've got better things to do with your time than games like theirs. Stay far far away from any ex's best friend, just don't go there. ex's best friend (girl) hits me up on Instagram asking me saying "hey. How are you doing?" Just ignore it or contact my ex?