Need advice .. BiSexual

[rnicole94]

I do I approach a female by asking them if I can pleasure them without any strings attached.. no feelings what's so ever.. not a lot of females are open to get pleasured.. I don't want it to make it seem like I'm a "nasty" girl or anything cus I'm not, I just crave it sometimes. Any advice?

[gebaird]

Propositioning anyone in this way is rather brash, regardless of gender or sexuality. I'd recommend dating someone and getting to know her a little before bringing up a topic like this. I would think pleasuring would be more pleasurable if there was some level of emotional connection.

[zeino]

You wouldn't seem "nasty" at all. If anything, you would sound like a submissive that would push some people off as the majority is more set on mutual pleasure I suppose. So they would wonder, what is going on? Why does someone want to pleasure me without knowing me? (Kills attraction for some). But then there are a lot of places where people can hook up.

[qwaspolk82]

If anyone came up to me and propositioned me to be "pleasured" by them I would immediately walk away. No thanks. I think that's a major turn off for some people.

 

Oh females are open to being pleasured - just not randomly by strangers.

[JamisonStorm]

That is kind of a ridiculous approach to casual sex. Attraction for a women is usually pretty mental. At least it is with me. The first time I was picked up by a women she was really nice to me all night, we had been friends for a while, she sat close to me all night, she made me laugh, she touched me softly a lot that night, a rub of the back, brush of the arm, move my hair out of my face, held my hand, danced with me, lots of hugs that got longer as the night went on, she'd play with my hair. The whole night there wasn't a moment that some type of physical contact wasn't happening. She complimented me a lot. So when we went back to the hotel room and she asked if she could kiss me I let her. Women like to be wooed!