Limerickmale Posted January 3, 2017 Share Posted January 3, 2017 I am a 23 year old male and my girl friend of 3 years mutually broke up two months ago.I want her back so bad and still feeling serious pain.Iv tried to talk to her but she had made up her mind and I think she is moving on and I know I should too but it's just not that simple.Iv had the worst anxiety in my stomach for the last two months straight from waking up every morning to going to bed.I dream about her and have visions of her being with someone else and it just turns my stomach and makes me really down.I havnt been myself and have no motivation or confidence to do anything.If someone that has been in my situation could give me advice it would be great because I feel like my life is over at this stage and I won't die happy unless I'm with her. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 3, 2017 Share Posted January 3, 2017 Sorry to hear this. Why did she break up with you? First of all, go no contact and block her. Do not be so dramatic and claim you'll die, etc. that's manipulative and will push her much further away. Stop obsessing and being jealous. Iv tried to talk to her but she had made up her mind Link to comment
Limerickmale Posted January 3, 2017 Author Share Posted January 3, 2017 It was mutual and we both decided things wernt the same after we had abit of a problem but nobody cheated or broke up with each other.But about a week passed after we did it and I just panicked and still am to this day.I know it sounds exaggerated but I'm only speaking from the heart.iv blocked her but when I even see her name come up on Facebook it turns my stomac. Link to comment
Limerickmale Posted January 3, 2017 Author Share Posted January 3, 2017 I had and still have a massive soft spot for her that I wish didn't exist but if any girl is reading this i would love advice also Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 3, 2017 Share Posted January 3, 2017 So after 3 yrs you have no idea why you "mutually" broke up or why she won't get back together? Are you or she dating anyone else? Sorry but being dramatic and "dying", etc. makes no sense if it was your "mutual" idea to break up.It was mutual and we both decided things wernt the same after we had abit of a problem iv blocked her but when I even see her name come up on Facebook it turns my stomac. Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted January 3, 2017 Share Posted January 3, 2017 You have misplaced your sense of security on someone else. Get outside, take a walk, visit a museum, hit the gym, sign up for a foreign language class. Anything that reminds you that you are your own source of that can-do spirit. Link to comment
Limerickmale Posted January 3, 2017 Author Share Posted January 3, 2017 A group of us Wer away for afew months and I choose having fun with my friends before caring about her but she also had friends with her but maybe didn't socialize as much as I did so ever since then she held that grudge against me and she wasn't the same with me after it so we both agreed it would be best to break up.After about a week then was when I started to panic.Shes a lovely girl and would around but my mind has just been playing tricks on me ever since. Link to comment
Limerickmale Posted January 3, 2017 Author Share Posted January 3, 2017 A lovely girl and wouldn't around Link to comment
Limerickmale Posted January 3, 2017 Author Share Posted January 3, 2017 No neither of us are dating someone since Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 3, 2017 Share Posted January 3, 2017 You left her for Months to go partying? Why do you only miss her now? group of us Wer away for a few months and I choose having fun with my friends before caring about her Link to comment
Limerickmale Posted January 3, 2017 Author Share Posted January 3, 2017 She and her friends wer with us while partying but she socialized more than them. Link to comment
Limerickmale Posted January 3, 2017 Author Share Posted January 3, 2017 Meant to say we socialized more than them sorry Link to comment
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