Andrewvo798 Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 My girlfriend and I have been dating for a month. She goes to the beach with one of her friends every year. She asked me if she can have a freebie week when they goto the beach. Freebie as in they can do what they want with other guys during that week. The friend's boyfriend has agreed to allowing his girlfriend to do it. Is this normal? It seems weird imo. How should I respond Link to comment
Andrewvo798 Posted January 2, 2017 Author Share Posted January 2, 2017 I'm 17 in highschool Link to comment
KantSleep Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 Well, I wouldn't be OK with it, but I guess it's an individual decision. Link to comment
Moonchild15 Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 My girlfriend and I have been dating for a month. She goes to the beach with one of her friends every year. She asked me if she can have a freebie week when they goto the beach. Freebie as in they can do what they want with other guys during that week. The friend's boyfriend has agreed to allowing his girlfriend to do it. Is this normal? It seems weird imo. How should I respond If you feel it's weird then go with your gut because it's ok to feel this way. Maybe tell her that it doesn't seem right to u & u aren't comfortable with it. If she doesn't like your answer then maybe that's your answer that she's not the right girl for u. Sorry. Good luck. Link to comment
Clio Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 No, it is not the norm for most peope. Listen to your gut. If it feels wrong, you should respond that you are not ok with it and that to you that means cheating. Then, you need to reflect on your personal values regarding relationship boundaries. If there is a fundamental difference in the way you and your girlfriend view romantic relationships, then you are not compatible and you need to break up and find someone who views freebie weeks the same way you do. Link to comment
ManyDates Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 Sure! Just be sure to tell her not to call, as you'll be busy with all the girls you'll be having over. Safe trip honey! Link to comment
browser Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 I'd say you can have "freebie rest of your life, see ya!" Link to comment
catfeeder Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 I'd say you can have "freebie rest of your life, see ya!" I second this. What is she, 12? Link to comment
Jibralta Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 What is she, 12? I hope not!! Link to comment
JaggerJim Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 I'd say you can have "freebie rest of your life, see ya!" Kids today. Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted January 3, 2017 Share Posted January 3, 2017 You're 17. Serial monogamy is the norm. What could she want to do at the beach, though. Eww. After a month, i would not consider anyone accountable to anyone besides themselves. But i am not 17. Link to comment
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