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What does it mean when a guy blocks you on every social media after sex?

beachlover96

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rosecolored108 Apprentice

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I would imagine that might have freaked him out...especially if he was only looking for sex.

 

He probably got freaked out by your "feelings" so he distanced himself in every way that he could.

 

This is not true in all cases, but having sex on a first date is generally not a good idea and usually doesn't lead to anything long-term...

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Wiseman2 Grand Master

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Was the sex any good? Do you think he was disappointed for some reason? Has he contacted you? Did you blow up his inboxes?

 

Why would you even be on his social media after a one night stand? Most hookups don't get chummy and friendly unless they evolve to fwb or regular booty call.

I went on a date with a guy that I met online and then we had sex at his place after our date. It was our first date. He blocked me on every social media the next day. Why would be block me on every social media after I had sex with him on our first date?
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SherrySher Grand Master

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beachlover, I am beginning to wonder if you're trolling...I have read many of your past posts and you keep asking similar questions and jumping into bed with just anyone and expecting them to treat you decently. You've been told many many times over, if you have sex with men straight away, don't expect them to respect you or want anything more than that.

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ParisPaulette Rising Star

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It means he doesn't want any drama, no matter whether you are prone to that or not, that's not the point. He just isn't willing to have you show up in any way, shape, or form in his life. It can scare off his other conquests, tip off some other woman that he might be with that he cheated on her, or he just does this with everyone as a matter of policy since he keeps sex separate from the rest of his life and has found that's the best way to do it.

 

It's harsh as heck, but in a way he's a lot more honest about it than those who go through the motions and say just enough to keep you hanging on hoping.

 

Block and delete in turn, realize he's shown you who he is, and do not respond if he comes back with some bogus tale of "I got scared." That just shows manipulation or serious emotional issues, neither of which you want to deal with.

 

Don't jump into bed with men you barely or don't know and expect anything more. This is like buying a car you haven't even driven then getting upset when it doesn't run at all. Caveat emptor. and yes that does apply to dating too. People need to show you, not tell you, that they are trustworthy and you don't get that in one or two or even a dozen dates sometimes. You need to slow it down and take the time to get to know someone first.

 

I'm always astonished at this idea we have in society that people should just be trusted on blind faith. That's not how it works, sorry.

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beachlover96 Enthusiast

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Was the sex any good? Do you think he was disappointed for some reason? Has he contacted you? Did you blow up his inboxes?

 

Why would you even be on his social media after a one night stand? Most hookups don't get chummy and friendly unless they evolve to fwb or regular booty call.

 

The sex was good and I don't think he was disappointed. He never contacted me after and I never texted him after.

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qwaspolk82 Contributor

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I went on a date with a guy that I met online and then we had sex at his place after our date. It was our first date. He blocked me on every social media the next day. Why would be block me on every social media after I had sex with him on our first date?

 

It means you got played. He obviously was looking for sex and when he realized you weren't - he blocked you. Pretty simple.

 

For the future, probably not a good idea to have sex on the first date. Unless all you want is sex.

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lucidious Contributor

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He got what he wanted from you and now he's onto the next. He might have a gf or other hookups on social media, could also be why he deleted you. If you wanted more than just a hook up, maybe you should have taken it slower. Don't have sex until you and dude are bf/gf officially.

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lostandhurt Grand Master

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For the OP and those not familiar with her plight here is a recap:

 

-What does it mean when a guy blocks you on every social media after sex?

-What does it mean when a guy cancels a date at the last minute?

-Why do most guys stop talking to me after sex?

-What does it mean when my ex boyfriend ignores my texts?

-What does it mean when a guy tells me that he wants me to get with other guys?

-Should I meet up with a guy that just wants to have sex?

 

I only went back 2 months but you get the idea. OP these are all threads you have started recently. Do you see the theme here? They are all SEX related and why guys disappear after they have sex with you. If you keep doing the same thing hoping for a different outcome you will be disappointed most of the time.

 

How about you actually take some of the advice you have been given over and over again and not have sex with guys so soon after meeting them. Don't talk about sex, don't do sexual things to early and slow any physical contact way down and see what happens.

 

It would seem you think the only thing of value you have for a man is your body. Is that true?

 

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limichelle Mentor

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I don't understand what it is you keep wanting an answer to OP?

 

You already know the common sense part is that the guys are only interested in sex and that's it given information from your other threads. Why do you rush sex if you are looking for more?

Is it because you think that's the only way to keep a guy interested? You can do so much better then what you are doing in the dating world. Or better yet, stop dating for awhile and find yourself. It seems you are lost.

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katrina1980 Grand Master

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This is not meant to be an insult to OP, as I am trying to show some compassion for her plight here, but with all these "what does it mean?" threads, could it be possible that she truly does not understand what it all means?

 

I am thinking perhaps some sort of learning disability, or social disorder, like Aspergers, or mental issues, that prevent her from understanding herself and what motivates her to act in ways that are detrimental to her well being, as well as understanding others and the various social nuances and emotional cues within herself and others.

 

Just a thought as there are many people who struggle with these same type of issues no matter how much advice is given to help them understand.

 

They're not trolling or intentionally being obtuse .... they truly just don't "get it" due to their own mental and social limitations.

 

Again, just a thought, it's possible.

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lostandhurt Grand Master

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Good point but when you ask for advice but never take it and keep repeating the same behaviors expecting a different result there really is nothing anyone on a forum can do but get frustrated. Most of the OP's threads she really doesn't interact with any of us so there is no back and forth to get deeper into where all this is coming from.

 

Lost

 

This is not meant to be an insult to OP, as I am trying to show some compassion for her plight here, but with all these "what does it mean?" threads, could it be possible that she truly does not understand what it all means?

 

I am thinking perhaps some sort of learning disability, or social disorder, like Aspergers, or mental issues, that prevent her from understanding herself and what motivates her to act in ways that are detrimental to her well being, as well as understanding others and the various social nuances and emotional cues within herself and others.

 

Just a thought as there are many people who struggle with these same type of issues no matter how much advice is given to help them understand.

 

They're not trolling or intentionally being obtuse .... they truly just don't "get it" due to their own mental and social limitations.

 

Again, just a thought, it's possible.

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katrina1980 Grand Master

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Good point but when you ask for advice but never take it and keep repeating the same behaviors expecting a different result there really is nothing anyone on a forum can do but get frustrated. Most of the OP's threads she really doesn't interact with any of us so there is no back and forth to get deeper into where all this is coming from.

 

Lost

 

Fair enough, I understand as I find myself getting quite frustrated too sometimes.

 

Not on this thread but others.

 

In any event and jmo, but there is just no justification for a poster accusing another poster of possible *trolling* unless it is obvious as it sometimes is, and the thread gets deleted. Doing so is extremely hurtful, again unless it's obvious.

 

But it's not obvious on this thread. The poster is confused and has issues, yes definitely.

 

And you are right she doesn't interact, which imo is further indication of some sort of social disorder. I could be wrong though, I often am and could be here too!

 

My post was just something to consider tis all.

 

All that said, this is a public message board, and as such, we are all allowed our opinions and to speak our minds, positive and negatve, and shouldn't be criticized or judged for that.

 

Which I am guilty of too sometimes, so I get it and trying to correct.

 

Wishing everyone a happy and healthy new year!!

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