What do you think of my "friend"?

[tamply2]

There's a friend of mine whom I known for more than 20 years and there's a girl that I'm into. I told him that I slept with the girl and he keeps texting her and asks her photos and wants to meet her etc, and he doesnt even hide it from me...He doesn't realize that our friendship is on the line. He doesn't want serious thing from that girl or any girl, just sex. I also told him that I don't want a serious relationship, but I still think it's weird. What should I do? I feel like he doesn't have any respect for me or anyone, even the girl told me he is annoying..Should I confront him?

[Billie28]

You have told him you don't want a relationship with this girl. So you are both wanting sex from her right? You also told him you slept with her I presume? So, basically told him there is a girl who you slept with, don't want a relationship with so she is free to sleep with whoever she wants. He is trying his luck. What's the problem?

 

How does he have her number? And why is she responding to his texts and telling you about it? She sounds like an attention seeker. Your friendship is on the line with him over a one nighter? Really?

 

I think you need to make up your mind as to how into her you are and then relate that to your friend. And her. Unless you decide you want something exclusive from her, she is anyone's game.

[tamply2]

I don't want a serious relationship, but we are still talking and intend to sleep together, so it's not over!!! They don't have each other's numbers, they talk on Facebook and that's because I told him about this girl, and he instantly added her as friend. He told me he just want to f*ck her, but even after me? In just a few days?? Come on! It's disgusting!

 

 

 

You have told him you don't want a relationship with this girl. So you are both wanting sex from her right? You also told him you slept with her I presume? So, basically told him there is a girl who you slept with, don't want a relationship with so she is free to sleep with whoever she wants. He is trying his luck. What's the problem?

 

How does he have her number? And why is she responding to his texts and telling you about it? She sounds like an attention seeker. Your friendship is on the line with him over a one nighter? Really?

 

I think you need to make up your mind as to how into her you are and then relate that to your friend. And her. Unless you decide you want something exclusive from her, she is anyone's game.

[greta96]

I think that with friends like this, who needs enemies?

[tamply2]

It's not about the intention for the girl. It's about the respect for a friend. I don't know about you guys, but I would never start texting a girl who I know one of my friends started something with.

[Wiseman2]

He can text her all he wants, it's her job to block him if "he's annoying". If you want to date her then go ahead. She decides who she wants to date and have sex with not you or him.

 

She's not either of your sex toy or gf so what's the issue? Both of you sound like you think you are in a game trying to see who screws her first? Sorry, her choice not yours nor this jerk's.

there's a girl that I'm into. I told him that I slept with the girl and he keeps texting her and asks her photos and wants to meet her etc, and he doesnt even hide it from me. I feel like he doesn't have any respect for me or anyone, even the girl told me he is annoying..Should I confront him?

[butterfly45]

You both sound like sleazy creeps to me.

[DaNgeRTasTiC]

Lol^^^

 

This is kind of a wierd situation. Both of you want to just bang the girl. I could understand you being annoyed either way but it's confusing since you don't want to date her....just bang.

 

Your buddy needs to get smacked in the mouth for being a $HiTTy friend. Regardless your intentions, he shouldn't be going after a girl that you're pursuing. I personally hate those kinds of douchebags and they do it just because you want to.

 

It's like my sons little toddler friends. He goes to pick up a toy that is on the floor in the corner and the other kid screams and cries "mine".

 

Who cares how long you have known him, he's a douche and not a real friend obvioulsy.

 

Plus who the hell wants sloppy seconds

[Billie28]

3some might solve it?

Geez, you want to bang her and so does he. He added her on fb only based on your recommendation.

If I was her, I would drop you both. You are as bad as each other.