What does it mean when a guy cancels a date at the last minute?

[beachlover96]

Last night, a guy that I knew asked me out on a date and he was very excited to see me. We have gone out a few times before and I had feelings for him and he had feelings for me also. He asked me out to dinner and I agreed to go. Then he texted me that he was getting ready to leave his house in a few minutes and then I texted him saying ok that's fine. Then a half hour has passed and I still haven't heard from him then I texted him asking where he was and then he texted me back saying that he couldn't make it. Why would he make plans with me and cancel at the last minute?

[Wiseman2]

Did he offer a reason?

Then a half hour has passed and I still haven't heard from him then I texted him asking where he was and then he texted me back saying that he couldn't make it. Why would he make plans with me and cancel at the last minute?

[SapphireNoir10]

Depends if there is a genuine reason or not on whether I'd schedule a second date or not?

[limichelle]

That's not right not getting back to you and you have to be the one to reach him while you wait a half an hour? I hope he has a good reason. If not then forget about him.

 

Lisa

[beachlover96]

Did he offer a reason?

No he didn't.

[surfdiva]

No he didn't.

 

He didn't offer a reason...did he apologize and ask to see you again? This seems rude to cancel without giving a reason.

[Wiseman2]

Are you both multidating? Has he ever been flaky before? Were you waiting at the restaurant?

We have gone out a few times before. He asked me out to dinner and I agreed to go. Then he texted me that he was getting ready to leave his house in a few minutes.Then a half hour has passed and I still haven't heard from him then I texted him asking where he was and then he texted me back saying that he couldn't make it.

[JaggerJim]

Is this the same guy as before who stood you up. If it is, get rid of him.

[boltnrun]

Is he one of the guys you slept with on the first date?

[annie24]

That is super rude. I would not go out with him again. Since he didn't give a reason, I would assume the worst - that he is married or has a girlfriend and she came home unexpectedly. Therefore, he couldn't go out with you. Lame. NEXT!!

[dave_1966]

I've read your previous posts, I'd advise others do the same.

[HeartGoesOn]

You have quite a few "What Does It Mean" type of threads. Maybe it's time to go back to being single for a while?

[annie24]

You have quite a few "What Does It Mean" type of threads. Maybe it's time to go back to being single for a while?

 

Or get a copy of the book "He's just not that into you."

[beachlover96]

Are you both multidating? Has he ever been flaky before? Were you waiting at the restaurant?

 

He's never been this flaky before. He was going to pick me up from my house.

[beachlover96]

Is he one of the guys you slept with on the first date?

 

No it wasn't.

[beachlover96]

He didn't offer a reason...did he apologize and ask to see you again? This seems rude to cancel without giving a reason.

 

No he never apologized and he never asked to see me again.