What would you do??

[Dustin Texas]

What would you do????

 

 

If your girlfriend.......

 

Worked in a strip club but doesn't want you to go to one..

Makes the managers not allow you to enter.

 

Promises she isn't gonna drink at work but does and then lies about.

 

Stays the night at guy friends house, and then lies about it..

 

s another guy while pregnant with your child.

 

Talks about you to everyone she knows especially her father and makes him hate you.

 

Doesn't shave anything for a week and then goes to her guy friends house and takes a bath and shaves everything there.

 

Then lied about it and said she was at her dads.

 

Meets with a stranger when y'all go out and starts an argument with you. Gives home her number. Has him pick her up from the hotel and stays the night with him while doing drugs. Then calls the cops on you later that morning.

 

Constantly talks to other guys and tries to hide it.

 

Lies to your face until she knows that you know and then admits it but nothing EVER happened.

 

This is seriously some of what I have went through in the last year. What do y'all have to say? Don't hold back..

[nutbrownhare]

What would I do? Gently but firmly tell her goodbye, and then seek therapy to find out why I'd got involved with someone like this in the first place!

[pippy longstocking]

eermmmmmmmm dump her ?

 

 

walk away faster then the new years eve fireworks exploding

[DaNgeRTasTiC]

Sounds pretty much like dating a stripper.

 

What would I do. First, I would move out or tell her to move out. Just because she is pregnant doesnt mean you have to be with her.

 

She is a liar and a cheater. Nothing will change. You have an obligation to your child....not to her

[DaNgeRTasTiC]

In my industry....dancers are occasionally clients. Plus I've known a lot of them over the years.

 

Some are good mothers just trying to support their child and pay bills.

 

The other ones, are all about the lifestyle of the strip club. They get caught up in the drama and the drugs.

 

Sounds like a LOT of stuff happened and instead of doing something about it....you basically told her "you can bang other guys and lie and I will still be here for you". That went on for a year?? Why did you allow it.

 

She is the worst kind of stripper man. Ditch her before you get dragged into it and get a stupid charge and you ruin your life

[Wiseman2]

A pregnant stripper who drinks and needs to shave? Why did she call the cops on you?

Worked in a strip club

Promises she isn't gonna drink at work but does and then lies about.

is another guy while pregnant with your child.

Doesn't shave anything for a week

Then calls the cops on you later that morning.

[katrina1980]

What would I do? Gently but firmly tell her goodbye, and then seek therapy to find out why I'd got involved with someone like this in the first place!

 

And .....choose to *stay* with her knowing she is completely dysfunctional and incapable of having a relationship, let alone a healthy one.

 

OP, this isn't about your "girlfriend" per se, it is about you.

 

And why you are still there tolerating this.

 

And the fact you "are" still there indicates you *are* tolerating it.

 

Why *are* you still there? Genuinely curious.

 

The best advice I ever received was to take responsibility for my *own* choices in life, and stop blaming others for whatever "they're" doing or not doing.

 

For me, even if a guy were the biggest d-bag who ever walked the face of the earth, if I choose to stay, that is on ME and me alone.

 

Not him for being a d-bag, but ME for choosing to stay.

 

Same with this girl.

 

Nevermind HER behavior, focus on your own in choosing to stay.

 

It will serve you well going forward.

[qwaspolk82]

What would you do????

 

 

If your girlfriend.......

 

Worked in a strip club but doesn't want you to go to one..

Makes the managers not allow you to enter.

 

Promises she isn't gonna drink at work but does and then lies about.

 

Stays the night at guy friends house, and then lies about it..

 

s another guy while pregnant with your child.

 

Talks about you to everyone she knows especially her father and makes him hate you.

 

Doesn't shave anything for a week and then goes to her guy friends house and takes a bath and shaves everything there.

 

Then lied about it and said she was at her dads.

 

Meets with a stranger when y'all go out and starts an argument with you. Gives home her number. Has him pick her up from the hotel and stays the night with him while doing drugs. Then calls the cops on you later that morning.

 

Constantly talks to other guys and tries to hide it.

 

Lies to your face until she knows that you know and then admits it but nothing EVER happened.

 

This is seriously some of what I have went through in the last year. What do y'all have to say? Don't hold back..

 

Why are you still with her?

 

And are you sure you're the one who got her pregnant? I'd be getting a paternity test asap if I was you. Sounds like could be anyone's.