Is she playing games?

[morrishuh]

So I went out with a woman the other week. Had a great time and she asked if she could kiss me goodnight. We then made out for a short time. No big deal. I've asked her to get together a few times but she's been busy. It's understandable since it's near Christmas. I haven't been pursuing her that much but she pretty much will message me everyday. The other day she said "I've been thinking about you a lot but I just don't have much free time at the moment. I do want to hangout". I told her no worries and to message me when she has some free time. Then the next day I get the "how's it going" text. I never asked her to hangout again because I don't have the time to chase someone that has no time.

 

My question is why does she message me daily if she doesn't want to hangout? I never initiate conversation with her yet she pretty much always messages me random texts that go nowhere. I'm not bothered by it at all but I can't understand if she's just looking for attention or if she's actually busy

[mustlovedogs]

She may be interested, but this is a busy time of year. Chat a bit and then ask her out after the holidays

[Soulsearching3]

I need sm help. I'm so hurt n confused . So many questions on mind

[Wiseman2]

Excellent you left the ball in her court. Sounds like she's keeping you in a holding pattern either because of holidays or she's meeting up with others. Try not replying a few times or reiterating that maybe after the holidays you could get together.

The other day she said "I've been thinking about you a lot but I just don't have much free time at the moment. I do want to hangout". I told her no worries and to message me when she has some free time. Then the next day I get the "how's it going" text. she pretty much always messages me random texts that go nowhere.

[SherrySher]

I would just ask straight out if and when she wants to go on another date and try to have set plans. If she still hesitates and has excuses than I would leave it.

If she was really into you, she would be wanting to see you, holidays or not.

[Sportster2005]

I need sm help. I'm so hurt n confused . So many questions on mind

 

Start a thread and state your questions.

[Sportster2005]

I would take her on her word, for now. Reciprocate her contact. After the holidays ask her out. Set a specific date and time. If she says 'too busy' without providing a clear alternate date/time, she's not interested.

[force]

Next time she texts you say so did you figure out when you're free to meet up? If she says I don't know blah blah blah then say well let me know, be polite then make an excuse to go.