Ex girlfriend got a rebound

[Loverzcorner86]

Ok so me and my girlfriend had been having se problem the last month or so mainly because we were stuck in her moms house because of living situations and everytbing.. I usually have my own place and a nice amount of money but the last year I fell off and lost everything.anyways we got into a huge fight and I needed a break so I went to NY where I'm from to ssd my friends and family I was there for 2 weeks and the day. Going back to ty missouri ( no offense) she tells me she's with someone and the guy took her to Miami and now she's already living with him, now wen I got to Missouri I automatically did the NC rule and she was looking for me everywhere and calling everyone wen she seeb I wouldn't talk to her she went into mode and started doing ignorant to with me and sure enough I cracked and ended up going off which ultimately ended up to us having a nice Convo and her back on top. We were together for 4 yeara been thru everything long distance relationship different states even prison I know shes with this guy cz he is stable n she wants the easy way.. in know I have to do the no contact rule and I will cuz I'm not gonna give her best of both worlds but from what I've said do u think theres a chance she can actually stay with this guy? Btw she still calls my mom and beat friend almost every other day

[gebaird]

I agree that no contact is your best option. You don't want to be her backup plan.

 

Some rebound relationships are short-lived, but some are lasting. Focus on getting your sh#t together. Then, whether or not she comes crawling back to you, you'll be in a better place.

[Andrina]

Who cares if she stays with the new guy? The way she exited out of your life was horrible and shows the state of her heart--it's black. No self respecting guy would take her back. You can't control if your bf and parent takes calls from her. What you could do is tell them if she does, you don't want to hear about it because you need closure.

[Wiseman2]

Agree you need to get your act together and leave her alone if she has a new bf. Focus on your employment and getting a living situation. How long were you in prison? Are you on parole?

last year I fell off and lost everything. been thru everything long distance relationship different states even prison I know shes with this guy cz he is stable n she wants the easy way.