My bf does the same thing and he gets spam emails from sex sights and snapchat m

[Ssocha]

My bf also gets spam email from sex sights and snapchat. He also gets messages about you want to hook up. I have caught him on pof and watching porn. We havent had sex in 5 months because he cant get an erection. He admitted he deletes the cache. I am very good at computers and i find stuff in command prompt. I am done with being treated like this and disrespected. To all you who believe you get these ramdom emails by accident are crazy because i dont ever get them. You have to be on these sights to get them period. Its time for us women to stop being fools.

[notalady]

Well I get random emails promoting Viagra and emails from (likely fake) women wanting to hook up quite frequently. And I'm a woman. So...I don't know if I'd take random and likely scam emails like that seriously.

 

On the other hand, if he's on POF, and if he's actually corresponding with women rather than getting random emails, then yes he is looking to cheat (or is cheating).

[Salty]

I'm a woman who watches A TONNE of porn as a visual aid in order to masturbate. Masturbation offers a dose of dopamine and seems to refresh me. I prefer porn that does not remind me of my relationship in anyway because I am looking for a way to enjoy variety without emotional or physical cheating. I sometimes go on Craigslist to check out personnels when I'm bored and will read some of the funnier ones to my fiance because I find them hilarious. Your problem isn't that he watches porn, it's that you 2 aren't able to make love. He might be addicted to masturbation question is why does he prefers his own hand to you? It's one thing to watch pornaments and have a healthy sex life and another to watch it and not be able to get an erection for your partner. Try bondage, get a whip and dominate him. Mix things up you seem too conservative

[Wiseman2]

Sorry to hear this but the lack of sex ED and being on dating sites are the biggest issues here. Are these hookup messages spam or on dating apps?

 

It's hard to say if spam email is solicited, usually not. Everyone probably deletes lots of sex and viagra and cheap drugs, etc spam everyday. In fact most spam is of that nature.

 

How long have you been dating? Has he always has issues with ED and sex? try yo open a conversation about the lack of affection/sex rather than trying to decipher spam.

I have caught him on pof and watching porn. We havent had sex in 5 months because he cant get an erection.

[rayfutz]

To all you who believe you get these ramdom emails by accident are crazy because i dont ever get them. You have to be on these sights to get them period.

 

Well good for you.

 

I get emails like this allll the time. My junk mail folder alone daily gets sexual spam and Viagra adds and 'wanna meet up?" messages from soliciting sites all the time, and I have never been on any of those hookup dating sites, or snapchat, or anything like that, ever. So there. Am I crazy too?

 

Porn sites are one thing, but a lot more than porn sites solicit this way too. Its easy effective advertising, so often times companies that own multiple domain names will solicit with the same adds if you use their site or enter an email. Being said, there was one site I was on for example, it was a funny gif site. Thats it. I enter my junk email so I can subscribe, and automatically my email was flooded and never stopped. Lots of stuff, lots of sexual soliciting. A lot of times your address is sold to other sites once you enter it so they can solicit too.

 

So to restate: I have never used snapchat, signed up for any porn site (wont say never looked at one), any dating/hookup site, any dating/hookup app, and all my email adresses constantly have this crap coming in. Id check your facts before accusing him, cause Im giving you my personal ones.