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While ago i broke up with my ex.. We became friends we are talking very offten sometimes we meet and everything was ok until today.. During day we were normally talking and making fun of things and suddenly in the evening he started to be very cold to me. He said he wants to talk about something important and if we can meet. He was cold during the whole setting up meeting conversation and now it looks like he ignors me for some reason...

Anyone can help me solve what it can be about ?

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Wiseman2 Grand Master

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How long were you dating? Why did you break up? Maybe he's tired of "being friends"? How often do you normally meet up?

We became friends we are talking very offten sometimes we meet and everything was ok until today..He said he wants to talk about something important and if we can meet.
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How long were you dating? Why did you break up? Maybe he's tired of "being friends"? How often do you normally meet up?

 

Well like 2 months.

We broke up because i have lost attraction to him and he took it well and we became friends.

Not sure...

We do meet like once per week and from time we used to date he's different now he changed and i got the feeling from him that he's trying to get me back.

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Wiseman2 Grand Master

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Agree. It sounds like he's going to say reconcile or no contact because he's sick of being friend-zoned.

 

To be honest you should not be leading him on if you "have no attraction" and it's doubtful he "took it well" and is happy as a clam in the friendzone.

We broke up because i have lost attraction to him and he took it well and we became friends. i got the feeling from him that he's trying to get me back.
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Well like 2 months.

We broke up because i have lost attraction to him and he took it well and we became friends.

Not sure...

We do meet like once per week and from time we used to date he's different now he changed and i got the feeling from him that he's trying to get me back.

 

I'm not trying to downplay your relationship, but the fact that you are this concerned about the intentions of someone you dated for about 8 weeks and then decided you had no attraction to is kinda bothersome.

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Martina091 Newbie

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None of us on here can tell you what he could possible want. Sure we might be able to hypothesis, but at the end of the day we simply can't. It can be a myriad of things.

 

If it's bothering you that badly, then ask to meet up with him tonight.

 

Good luck.

 

 

Actually i can't we are from different cities and we both are studing.

 

I'm not trying to downplay your relationship, but the fact that you are this concerned about the intentions of someone you dated for about 8 weeks and then decided you had no attraction to is kinda bothersome.

 

Well at start he was nice and shy and i wanted to give him change because i thought he deserves it but it got us noone. I'm aware of it that i hurted him which i didn't want to. Shame on me.

That's why my guess is that he wants me out of his life because i think he tryied hard to get me back.

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