2 months later..

[disastrouslove]

It has been over 2 months since we broke up and since I initiated no contact. All I know is is that I'm feeling even more devastated by the break-up now than I did right after it happened. I cannot take my mind off of him. There has been zero contact, which frustrates me because how can you tell someone you love them so much, then disappear like nothing ever happened? I just want him back so bad. I've never been this hurt and upset about a break-up ever..

 

I didn't know where to turn or who to turn to. I want to cry and scream. I want to send his belongings back to him. I want to hate him, but I want to love him for eternity. My feelings are a huge mess. I don't understand why I'm feeling like this now. Why haven't I moved on?

[Clio]

 

Sorry that you are hurting. Two months is not that long though. Especially if it was an LTR. You obviously need more time and that's OK. What you are feeling is normal. The pain comes and goes in waves. It can have a cyclic pattern. Hang in there. NC is the right thing to do. Just make sure that you stay away from social media and learning any new info about him as well. Sadly, people can love you and then stop. It happens all the time. Try to resist the urge to contact him as it will set you back big time. It may also be helpful to research the five stages of grief. What you are describing though is normal. Good luck with your healing!

[Wiseman2]

Sorry to hear this. Breakups hurt but eventually everyone survives them and finds the right partner.

 

How long were you dating ? What was the breakup about?

 

Yes arrange to sever these loose ends and give his stuff back.

I want to send his belongings back to him. I want to hate him, but I want to love him for eternity.