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ms1994

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Would you consider it a communication deal breaker if you and someone use to text a lot and a Lil phone conversation here and there and for whatever reason the stop texting you and now the only way they seem to communicate with you is through snapchat! How long would you put up with it?

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coolgirl Rising Star

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The person I was talking too made it difficult to even communicate with him. We would text nonstop but when it came to phone conversations and when it came down too having a serious conversation it became difficult for me. Because I felt like I couldn't get through to him. It came to a point where I couldn't put up with it anymore. Because he was a closed off person. When I tried to communicate with him he would only says 2 sentences to me and that's it. I grew fed up with it.; When you see and know it's not getting anywhere that's where I would cut my ties and I did.

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coolgirl Rising Star

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Exactly, so dont waste time on a person that doesn't put in any effort at all. The man I was speaking too he did at first put effort we were getting along n everything then all of a sudden he would disappear at times for weeks or months at a time. I didn't think much of it at first but then became regular on a daily basis. I put up for it for a year and grew tired of his shanigans. Some are just immature for their age. So find someone that is worthy of your time and can communicate and cut your losses with them. Some just don't want grow up. Hope this helps a bit.

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Wiseman2 Grand Master

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It may be best to block and delete a time waster like this from all social media and your phone and go no contact.

 

This is not a "communication issue' it's a complete lack of interest.

 

There are no dates or in person contact? Have you ever met?

 

Have you read the book "He's Just Not That Into You"? It may give you some signs and tips to sort out the interested guys from the time wasters like this one.

Would you consider it a communication deal breaker if you and someone use to text a lot and a Lil phone conversation here and there and for whatever reason the stop texting you and now the only way they seem to communicate with you is through snapchat! How long would you put up with it?
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Batya33 Grand Master

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It depends how often you're going on dates. In a new relationship if he's interested in seeing you once or twice a week then get to know him on dates. Snap chat is not "communication" - this doesn't seem to be about communication but about wanting a short leash where you're in contact to make sure he's still interested as opposed to getting to know him as a person. If he's not making plans to see you - time and place - then those actions or lack of actions would tell me that he's not that interested.

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ms1994 Newbie

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It depends how often you're going on dates. In a new relationship if he's interested in seeing you once or twice a week then get to know him on dates. Snap chat is not "communication" - this doesn't seem to be about communication but about wanting a short leash where you're in contact to make sure he's still interested as opposed to getting to know him as a person. If he's not making plans to see you - time and place - then those actions or lack of actions would tell me that he's not that interested.

 

Your exactly right! Since our third date I notice he been a lil distant. He stop texting me and I felt like I was the one reaching out to him more trying to suggest dates. yet he snaps me But wouldn't txt or call to make plan to see me. It's best I stop responding to his snaps. if he won't text me at least I know where I stand

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