I Need Advice. I have no one to go to. I cant give up on her.

[Chad2000]

I'm 16, She is too. We dated for 4 months before she told me that she just doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. She said that she still loves me and wants to try again in the future. But she doesn't want to date anyone right now. She wants me to move on. She wants to be just friends. Ill be honest, i'd die for her, without regret. She saved my life. She was the best thing that has happened to me in my life. I don't want to lose her. She said she still loves me and i'm the best boyfriend that she has ever had. I cant give up on her. I told her I'd wait till she is ready to date again. But she said that she doesn't want to lead me on. Yet says she wants to try again in the future. What do I need to do? Blocking her out of my life is not an option.

[Luna2014]

You are 16. The world is your oyster.

Listen to her and move on.

[Chad2000]

She has told me that she thinks im too good for her and that she doesn't deserve to be with me and all that kind of stuff. Shes amazing. Shes smart, talented, beautiful, charming, caring, loving, humble, etc... I don't want to move on honestly. I want to be able to make her happy. I want to be with her.

[Capricorn3]

I'm 16, She is too. We dated for 4 months before she told me that she just doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. But she doesn't want to date anyone right now. She wants me to move on. she said that she doesn't want to lead me on.

 

What do I need to do?

 

You need to listen to her. She's being upfront and honest with you. Kudos to her for letting you know where you stand.

 

I don't want to move on honestly. I want to be able to make her happy. I want to be with her.

 

You can't be with her if she doesn't want to be with you. You have no choice but to move on. She told you she doesn't want a relationship with you. You havce to learn to accept that. Life is tough. We don't always get what we want.

[Wiseman2]

Sorry to hear this. Back off so she can miss you. If you buzz around, it will only hurt you and she'll start thinking of you as a lost puppy and friendzone you.

 

Pull away and work on yourself. Get involved in school sports, clubs, groups, activities, events, etc. Show yourself that you have a life. Develop confidence. Don't be a doormat. Start paying attention to other girls, so she knows you are not a fool.

She wants me to move on. She wants to be just friends. Ill be honest, i'd die for her.

[vivnshol]

Seriously, listen to her, you both are still very young and need to see the world, if u somehow find ur way back to each other, then u can see how it goes.