Hurt my ex badly

[Hgielyk1813]

I hurt me ex really badly last summer I broke up with him and rushed right into a relationship to get over him. I love him and I want him back, but he's found a new girl and he doesn't know who to choose. How do I get him to choose me?

[Capricorn3]

I hurt me ex really badly last summer

In a previous thread you said that HE lied to you and that's why you broke up with him. This was only 4 months ago? Are you still with the other guy?

 

Your EX is with someone else now. You can't make someone choose you. If he wants to be with you, he will. Seems you are both rebounding and both of you need to be single for a while.

[pippy longstocking]

it is a bit confusing with your last thread , you said you where acting like a couple and he was giving her the cold shoulder ?

 

But anyway , given that you have told him you want to be back , it looks lkike her may have moved on with this other girl . Nothing you can do to make him choose you ..infact the best chance you have is just getting on with it ...he knows you want him back ..he will soon contact you if he wants that .

[JA0371]

Honestly, if you need to ask that question then you have your answer. The problem in these scenerios is that you eventually end up feeling like a ball being juggled in the air, and not knowing if you'll be caught or dropped. Why even do that to yourself ? You don't let HIM make the decision...YOU choose to not be an option.

[Wiseman2]

What happened to the guy you were dating? He's got a gf, so he has chosen her. Stop contacting him.

 

If he wanted to be with you, he'd break up with her and let you know with complete certainty that he wants to reconcile, so there would never be this question.

I broke up with him and rushed right into a relationship to get over him. I love him and I want him back, but he's found a new girl and he doesn't know who to choose.

[Hgielyk1813]

They aren't dating he has told me hrs using her to get over me but that we won't work out because he can't trust me

[Hgielyk1813]

Just Sunday he was crying and telling me he loves me but he has hungout with this girl for the past three days it's just so confusing

[Seraphim]

You want someone who uses people ? Why?

[Wiseman2]

Sorry he sounds like someone who uses people including playing you.

They aren't dating he has told me hrs using her to get over me but that we won't work out because he can't trust me

[Hgielyk1813]

He was literally crying over me on Sunday he's not using me he's scared to trust me and is just trying to move on buy I'm trying to figure out how to stop him from doing that

[Seraphim]

He was literally crying over me on Sunday he's not using me he's scared to trust me and is just trying to move on buy I'm trying to figure out how to stop him from doing that

 

You said right out he's using another person . Why do you want someone like that ?

[Hgielyk1813]

He wouldn't be using anyone had I not broken his heart

[Seraphim]

He wouldn't be using anyone had I not broken his heart

 

I wouldn't make an excuse for bad character . don't make excuses for him . A person's integrity is about themselves .

[Capricorn3]

He wouldn't be using anyone had I not broken his heart

 

You said you broke up with him because he lies to you. Doesn't his lying count for anything?

[Seraphim]

See, you don't want someone who lies and uses people.