Girl asked "Who else is coming"

[Derek88]

Okay gonna keep this brief:

Met a girl at work over the summer she's a foreigner, 21 and I'm 17 almost 18.

Im in NY and now she's living in Miami with friends.

I haven't seen her since September, I also didn't reach out to her, I wanted her to come to me which she did, asking how I was etc.

In early Nov. I asked her if she wanted to travel to California, Grand Canyon, etc in April with me. She said she "would love to!" We didn't hash out the details just talked. Dec. 1st we talked on the phone and we barley talked about the trip, this was the first time we'd talked on the phone since sept. And we just caught up, it was nothing but laughs and such.

Well last night I gave her the definitive dates and we made some plans, she asked about the prices and stuff. Then she asked

"Who else is coming"

"Two weeks right"

Now is this a bad sign because she's asking if anyone else is going? I want it to just be us two. Also she asked "two weeks right?" Could this mean she's gonna invite her friends?

Most of my friends say that she's probably just curious who would be going because it's a two week vacation so she's just wondering. What do you think?

[mustlovedogs]

You're not dating... there's literally no reason to expect her to keep it just you two.

[Wiseman2]

It seems she's under the impression it's a group of friends going, hanging out and maybe sharing rooms, splitting costs,etc.

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Well last night I gave her the definitive dates and we made some plans, she asked about the prices and stuff. Then she asked "Who else is coming" "Two weeks right"

[Scoe141]

Same girl?

 

 

 

 

 

Either way, we gave you some solid advice then. Also, just to forewarn you, multiple accounts aren't allowed.

 

 

Sorry man... good luck.

[happyfrank]

She assumed you were going with family or friends. Especially if she knows your 17.

[SoulTaker]

Met a girl at work over the summer she's a foreigner, 21 and I'm 17 almost 18.

Im in NY and now she's living in Miami with friends. I haven't seen her since September, I also didn't reach out to her, I wanted her to come to me which she did, asking how I was etc.

 

Is this what you call dating? You deliberately go NC on her for no good reason. And then, when she contacts you, you want to whisk her away on a long 2-week vacation by yourself. Not only that, you're just 17. There's also no mention of whether you actually dated her, was in a relationship,.... You sound pretty sure of yourself.