What are the REAL SIGNS of cheating?

[ashleyrose]

What are the it signs of a cheating man,or a man with a double life?

[gebaird]

Hiding his phone screen from you, acting secretive, being gone longer than expected wherever he goes (e.g., a quick trip to the store takes 2 hours), working late on a frequent basis or going "out with friends" often, lying about little things and denying it or getting defensive when confronted, being emotionally unavailable and mentally disengaged.

 

Some of these signs could also point to things besides cheating (losing interest, going through a stressful time, etc.) Before you mount a full-scale investigation, make sure it's not just your own paranoia or trust issues from previous relationships causing you to feel this way. If the relationship isn't making you happy, you don't have to "prove" that he's cheating to start a conversation about making needed changes. Does he have a history of cheating? Do you have a history of being cheated on?

[pippy longstocking]

Maybe it would be more productive to tell us what is going on rather then fill your head with stuff .

[RainyCoast]

Maybe it would be more productive to tell us what is going on rather then fill your head with stuff .

 

she's been asking whether he could be cheating and leading a double life for like ages.

 

op, you need to directly ask him for explanations of everything you're suspicious about and if his answers are unsatisactory, you have your answer. if they are satisfactory explanations but you still don't trust him, you likewise have your answer.

 

tea leaves are useless. you have a practical situation and a real person to deal with (and plenty material to deal with, judging by your threads) , not a daisy to pluck petals off while chanting he cheats he cheats not.

[Capricorn3]

OP, you have several threads on the same topic and have received tons of replies. You clearly don't trust him and if you can't sit down and ask him questions and discuss matters, then you need to leave. As it is, without trust, you have nothing anyway.

[Zaphod]

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Also, random letters through the door demanding child support.

[pippy longstocking]

she's been asking whether he could be cheating and leading a double life for like ages.

 

op, you need to directly ask him for explanations of everything you're suspicious about and if his answers are unsatisactory, you have your answer. if they are satisfactory explanations but you still don't trust him, you likewise have your answer.

 

tea leaves are useless. you have a practical situation and a real person to deal with (and plenty material to deal with, judging by your threads) , not a daisy to pluck petals off while chanting he cheats he cheats not.

 

ahh right , thankyou rainy x