Mack1990 Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 Hi guys! So about four months ago I got out of a toxic relationship, you can read more about it in my history. I am moving on, finding other women to talk to. So, there's this woman I know who is my former coworkers brother. I saw her once maybe five or six years ago, but me being only 20 at the time, I didn't have the balls to ask her out. She's a beautiful and nice woman. Fast forward to about a month after my breakup, I messaged her on Facebook, telling her that I just got out of a toxic relationship and that I'm looking for a good woman to fill what's missing in my heart, and that I just wanted to take her out to dinner soon. I was trying so hard to make it sound like I wasn't looking for a rebound, which I wasn't at all. But she told me she was kinda seeing someone and seeing where it'll go from there. So I said "ok I hope it works out". Fast forward to a few days ago, she messaged me on Facebook saying "congrats on your new job" (I got a new job a about a month ago). Mind you she hadn't messaged me in a few months. And since then we've been having casual convos on Facebook, and she's been responding to me with long, down to earth messages. I'm gonna give it a couple days to try asking her out again, kind of a way to keep her wondering and so as not to seem desperate. So people, particularly women, is she interested in me again? What do you think? Thanks! Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 Sure why not? She reached out this time. Maybe things didn't work out with that guy.she told me she was kinda seeing someone and seeing where it'll go from there. Mind you she hasn't messaged me in a few months. And since then we've been having casual convos on Facebook, and she's been responding to me with long, down to earth messages. Link to comment
nutbrownhare Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 Ask her how her relationship's going, in the context about asking about her life in general... that way, you'll know whether she's free or not. On the basis of the response, plan your next move. Or not. Link to comment
Raaawr Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 Fast forward to a few days ago, she messaged me on Facebook saying "congrats on your new job" (I got a new job a about a month ago). Mind you she hadn't messaged me in a few months. And since then we've been having casual convos on Facebook, and she's been responding to me with long, down to earth messages. I'm gonna give it a couple days to try asking her out again, kind of a way to keep her wondering and so as not to seem desperate. So people, particularly women, is she interested in me again? What do you think? Thanks! She contacted you again so yeah... probably. If she wasnt interested she wouldnt contact you and she has done the opposite so show some confidence my good man. Link to comment
Mack1990 Posted December 7, 2016 Author Share Posted December 7, 2016 Thanks guys. I'm gonna give it a couple days and just talk casually to her, she's been messaging me a lot so I think I got myself a bite. She's a beautiful woman so I can't screw this up, I need a woman who can replace was missing in my heart. Link to comment
Raaawr Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 I need a woman who can replace was missing in my heart. No. If you keep relying on people to fill holes in you, you are always going to end up back here in this same situation. If you aren't happy being alone, you aren't ready for a relationship. Link to comment
nutbrownhare Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 No. If you keep relying on people to fill holes in you, you are always going to end up back here in this same situation. If you aren't happy being alone, you aren't ready for a relationship. This ^^^. Nobody can fill your inner emptiness, any more than they can eat for you or sleep for you. In the early days of a relationship, there are loads of hormones buzzing around the place and we are temporarily on a high; this cannot last, and once it fades away we can look realistically at whether we and the other person are actually a good fit. When we're in the "honeymoon phase" it can seem as though our dreams have come true, but ultimately love comes from a full heart, not an empty one. Link to comment
Mack1990 Posted December 9, 2016 Author Share Posted December 9, 2016 Just an update, I asked her out on a date and she said yes. I'm pretty happy, hoping that she likes me. This woman is a million bucks to me lol Link to comment
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