Pending relationship

[Buffygal2002]

Hi, I've been dating this guy since August . We met online. I really like him. I'm almost 30. I'm not very experienced in terms of relationships or being bold with guys. He gives me a closed mouth, few second kiss and a sweet hug Everytime we go out. There's not more physical intimacy beyond that in terms of kidding . I want a little more. Does this pattern seem unusual for a guy you've dated for months ? I plan to try to be more affectionate and see if he reciprocates.

[notalady]

Is he also not very experienced?

 

You can take the lead by prolonging the kiss next time he kisses you. Perhaps he just wants to make sure you're comfortable with the way it's going before taking it to the next level.

[Rossy25]

Try to take the lead. He seems shy, or maybe afraid that you'd get uncomfortable. Or he just doesn't want you to judge him of being a pervert or something since it's an online relationship. Talk to him, tell him that you feel that way.

[missmarple]

You've been dating since August and he's only giving you close mouthed short kisses? Unless he's 15 (I hope he's not!), something is very wrong with him. This goes beyond 'shy'.

[Edmund Exley]

You've been dating since August and he's only giving you close mouthed short kisses? Unless he's 15 (I hope he's not!), something is very wrong with him. This goes beyond 'shy'.

 

Perhaps he hasn't had much dating experience either.

[Buffygal2002]

No he's 30 lol. All I know is he lived with an Exgirlfriend for a year. I need to subtly ask him what happened in the end.

[Buffygal2002]

Thank you!

[tattoobunnie]

Get wined and dined together, and grab his crotch, and place his hands on your boobs. I know that sounds crass, but some men need not only a signal, that need guidelines and billboards.