Info on texting

[Ssj49]

Hey. This is a long winded one but wanted a bit of advice.

 

So I study at uni, met this girl in the lab and talked to her twice (just general chit chat mainly about uni). I asked if she wanted to go out with me for dinner and for her number . She gave me her number but said that she's mainly busy this weekend.

 

A few hours after I got home I text her asking how she was and if she still wails like to go out with me, we chatted backward and forward for a little bit about germneral stuff .

 

During that convo I did most the talking and she just had short replies, also I gave her a cheeky comment on how pretty she was and she sent a blushing emoji. Finally to end the messages I said have a goood weekend and ended it with a kiss (none of her messages ended with a x and she text back thank you)

 

I have two questions. Firstly, does it sound like I payed it on too strong and if so how do I undo that. Secondly, do you think she would give me her number and agree to go out for dinner ( I never said date) if she wasn't interested or had a boyfriend?

 

Any advice would help

 

Adil

[Wiseman2]

Excellent. You asked her out got her number made sure you showed some flirty interest texting, etc.

 

Now hang back just a slight bit and ask her when she's free next weekend.

 

Definitely giving her number means interest and doubt if there's a bf.

I asked if she wanted to go out with me for dinner and for her number . She gave me her number During that convo I did most the talking and she just had short replies, also I gave her a cheeky comment on how pretty she was and she sent a blushing emoji.

[HeartGoesOn]

I think you'll get a better handle on that by calling her, rather than texting.

[Ssj49]

Thanks for the responses. Should I wait until I see her again instead of calling. Worried I might come across as too desperate. Btw she's Greek if that helps (I'm British Indian)

[j.man]

Send all emojis. Women love emojis.

[Wiseman2]

Chat in class a bit, text here or there and give it a few days and ask her next week about the upcoming weekend. Ask what her favorite dish/food/restaurant is as a lead in.

Thanks for the responses. Should I wait until I see her again instead of calling. Worried I might come across as too desperate. Btw she's Greek if that helps (I'm British Indian)

[justshine1]

I have two questions. Firstly, does it sound like I payed it on too strong and if so how do I undo that. Secondly, do you think she would give me her number and agree to go out for dinner ( I never said date) if she wasn't interested or had a boyfriend?

 

Any advice would help

 

Adil

 

 

First off loool if she did had a bf she wouldn't have given you her number. And secondly. I think maybe shes just shy so she didn't put the x after. Don't sweat it. And don't flirt to much some ppl don't know how to handle a lot of compliments.

[JaggerJim]

Hey. This is a long winded one but wanted a bit of advice.

 

So I study at uni, met this girl in the lab and talked to her twice (just general chit chat mainly about uni). I asked if she wanted to go out with me for dinner and for her number . She gave me her number but said that she's mainly busy this weekend.

 

A few hours after I got home I text her asking how she was and if she still wails like to go out with me, we chatted backward and forward for a little bit about germneral stuff .

 

During that convo I did most the talking and she just had short replies, also I gave her a cheeky comment on how pretty she was and she sent a blushing emoji. Finally to end the messages I said have a goood weekend and ended it with a kiss (none of her messages ended with a x and she text back thank you)

 

I have two questions. Firstly, does it sound like I payed it on too strong and if so how do I undo that. Secondly, do you think she would give me her number and agree to go out for dinner ( I never said date) if she wasn't interested or had a boyfriend?

 

Any advice would help

 

Adil

 

It's a safe bet she knows you have the raging hots.

[justshine1]

J.man- U effing troll.

 

Don't do that!!! We like emoji yes buy don't over do it

[Sportster2005]

Yes, you overplayed your interest. You can't undo it. You can stop doing it. Relax. Less is more.