Joemc82 Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 Hello just asking for any advice on how to win her back, I don't know how to get through to her, back story is we have 2 kids together the youngest being 2, we split up a while back with me finishing things. She has tried constantly to put us back together and wHen I Findlay got my head around to actually realising I wanted her back she said no and started dating someone immediately. Any help will do Link to comment
tattoobunnie Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 You're going through intimacy withdrawals on top of only wanting her now because she is seeing someone else. Focus on why you wanted to end it, and move forward. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 You'll have to stay in contact for the kids . She's with someone now? When did you move out? Focus on child support, custody/visitation, the kids needs and being the best dad possible. You can't control whether she takes you back or not.Hello just asking for any advice on how to win her back, I don't know how to get through to her, back story is we have 2 kids together the youngest being 2, we split up a while back with me finishing things. She has tried constantly to put us back together and wHen I Findlay got my head around to actually realising I wanted her back she said no and started dating someone immediately. Any help will do Link to comment
Joemc82 Posted November 28, 2016 Author Share Posted November 28, 2016 I ended it through stupidity, I have no interest in moving on Link to comment
tattoobunnie Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 Then did you suddenly start making smart moves? What happened that made you want to end it? I really doubt it was stupid enough to make you leave your the mother of your children who also spent time begging for you back. Link to comment
katrina1980 Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 Why did you end it and what made you realize you wanted her back? And whose to say IF you actually succeeded in getting her back, the same doubts you had that caused you to end it the first time wouldn't happen again? Are you a commitment phobe? Not judging but CP's are notorious for feeling suffocated and needing space while *in* a relationship ... and then wanting the person back after the relationship ends and she/he is dating someone else. Link to comment
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