garn Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 I ended a relationship with a guy that I have been with for three years...it was an unhealthy relationship that I needed to end. Anyway, now that I'm dating again I started sleeping with this guy. The sex is great but I find it hard having to orgasm. He has a lot of patience with me and he'll even tell me to tell him what to do to make me orgasm. I am very attracted to him but idk why its hard for me OG. Is there something wrong with me?? Or could it be the lack of emotional connection. Because even though my last relationship was unhealthy the sex was great! I had an orgasm every time. So I'm wondering if its because im lacking that emotional connection or is there something wrong with me?? Link to comment
kbbcoop77 Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 How long did u wait between your last relationship ended and jumping in the sack with the new guy? Link to comment
Kaykayxo Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 Perhaps you are just thinking too much about it? Could very well be the lack of connection though. Casual sex isn't for everybody. I would be the same way. Link to comment
gebaird Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 Sometimes that can be caused by emotional baggage. Hopefully it will start to get better soon -- if not, a therapist may be able to help. Link to comment
Wolfshook Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 Allow yourself some time to heal. I'm a guy and started fwb relationship 3 months after bu and first few times I couldnt orgasm (which is odd for guys). I just wasnt emotionally ready. Link to comment
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