Don't know what to do with this Pisces fish boy

[Chrysler2002TC]

I met a gentleman who is 13 years older almost 4 years ago. Lied about tons of stuff and when I found out he was married I left him alone. Back in November of last year we reconnected (huge mistake because I knew he was married MY BAD that one time). In January his wife passed, in August we lost our son about 17 weeks along. He has lied about so much and has an addiction to young girl porn. He wasn't there when I delivered our deceased child to say goodbye and nobody in his family or workplace even knew he was expecting. Because of this I have relapsed into Anorexia because I never feel like I'm good enough for him. He makes statements about """I want you but my head should be in a better place is all""""". """"I will tell you if I don't want to be with you. I just want to get my head better and I just don't know how long. Counselor has told me that it will take as long as it takes. I just want you to know that you are my first choice."""""

 

I'm just so tired of competing and fighting for his approval and love. Just don't know what to do now he's not answering any forms of communication because I expressed how he has made me feel I don't know if he'll ever contact me again even just to apologize

[gp11a]

Lied about tons of stuff and when I found out he was married I left him alone.

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In January his wife passed, in August we lost our son about 17 weeks along.

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He has lied about so much and has an addiction to young girl porn.

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He wasn't there when I delivered our deceased child to say goodbye and nobody in his family or workplace even knew he was expecting.

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Because of this I have relapsed into Anorexia

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I never feel like I'm good enough for him.

 

I'm just so tired of competing and fighting for his approval and love.

 

I'm sorry to hear about the delivery, but look at all that you have mentioned above... Where are the good things? Now he won't even talk to you.

 

I do not know why you continue to fight for his approval and love. This looks like quite an uphill battle and you should have been out the door when he lied about being married! This should have thrown red flags about what was to come if you were to continue. You even said it was a huge mistake reconnecting, so I'm not sure why you are wondering what to do now. I think you should cut him off and try to move on with your life in a healthier way. When you are in a healthy relationship, you shouldn't have to feel like you need to constantly fight for their love... I also hope that you are seeking help with your Anorexia, this does not seem like it is a healthy relationship for you to be in.

[Wiseman2]

He's a pedophile? Bring the computer to the local police station or ask them to come over so he can be arrested for child pornography.

has an addiction to young girl porn.

[Snny]

He has lied about so much and has an addiction to young girl porn.

Hold up. How young?

 

If it's children definitely contact the police. Do NOT tell him you are reporting him.

 

If it's "teen" porn, questionable. Those girls are typically eighTEEN and nineTEEN (legal age). I looked 12 when I was 18.

 

So unless you can actually PROVE the age the girls, then be sure if there's a case.

 

Everything else, dump him. It has nothing to do with zodiac signs or any of that hocus pocus.