It's been almost 7 months...

[lilsunfl0wer]

I recently broke up with my ex about 6/7 months ago and now he won't leave me alone! He keeps constantly texting me (literally) over 50 messages a day, constantly sending me Facebook friend requests after he unfriended and block me.. He even started to talk to othe girls but he claims I'm still the one for him. We work together, so he also follows me around everywhere I go and try to convince me to talk to him, and when I don't he pushes on me or touches me. I don't want nothing from him anymore and he can see that as I'm talking to other people, but I'm scared to date again as he told me he will do something drastic. He also mention that if he can't have me back, he told me there's no point of him living anymore. I'm confused on what to do or how to help him?

[JA0371]

So...you broke up with him months ago. He blocked you on FB, and NOW he's doing this?

This is insane and ludicrous. Why haven't you blocked his number or changed your number? 50 messages a day is

flat out HARRASSMENT. Tel him goodbye...it's over..for good. Anything else is inviting his behavior.

[Wiseman2]

It would be best to stay no contact, delete and block him from your phone, contact lists, social media and all messaging apps. Why are you entertaining this contact and supposedly unwanted attention?

 

Avoid and ignore him at work and report him for sexual harassment to management. Get a restraining order. If he stalks you, touches you or pushes you call the police immediately. Why have you not done these things and let him text you etc?

 

This is abuse, stalking, sexual harassment at work and assault. Unless you are in a country where this type of thing is legal or overlooked, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Stop playing victim if you do nothing and make excuses.

He keeps constantly texting me over 50 messages a day, constantly sending me Facebook friend requests. We work together, so he also follows me around everywhere I go and try to convince me to talk to him, and when I don't he pushes on me or touches me.

[lilsunfl0wer]

So...you broke up with him months ago. He blocked you on FB, and NOW he's doing this?

This is insane and ludicrous. Why haven't you blocked his number or changed your number? 50 messages a day is

flat out HARRASSMENT. Tel him goodbye...it's over..for good. Anything else is inviting his behavior.

 

YES! I told him he needs to move on with life! I'm scared he might hurt me or my date.. He even told me he'll follow me until the end of time.

[lilsunfl0wer]

Is this the guy in AU that you never met? it would be best to stay no contact, delete and block him from your phone, contact lists, social media and all messaging apps.

 

Avoid and ignore him at work and report him for sexual harassment to management. Get a restraining order. If he stalks you, touches you or pushes you call the police immediately.

 

This is abuse, sexual harassment at work and assault. Unless you are in a country where this type of thing is legal or overlooked it DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

 

Noo, this is a locally guy. We were in a relationship for a year and a half.

[RainyCoast]

tell him you will report him for stalking and harassment and block his number and social media. set yours to private.

 

you needn't concern yourself with helping him. if he ever tells you he's hurting himself, he is guilting you. but you can call a suicide helpline and give them his adress. your nearest hospital also has a psych in stand by and he'd get a psych eval, and help from there on.

 

if harassment at work continues, show your inbox to HR.

[charity]

Has any past behaviour while you were together caused you to think he might be dangerous?. To be very honest I would be quite scared of a person who behaves this way.

[catfeeder]

Why not just block him?