something or not ?

[3dgain]

for 7 months we used to cuddle every night all night then she got a job a little far away from home so she doesn't spend the night here on the days she works she complained that she wasn't sleeping good on the bed I had so I got her a themperputic or however u spell it and now she barely cuddles she tells me she is just knocked out and that's she doesn't mean 2 but it was one of the things I think really bonded us or at least me to her is this a big deal or am I just twisted up ?

[Wiseman2]

Are you dating? Or hooking up or fwb? How old is she? Are you upset she doesn't come over as much or that she just goes to sleep without "cuddling", whatever that means?

for 7 months we used to cuddle every night all night and now she barely cuddles she tells me she is just knocked out

[SooSad33]

Can't believe you went out n bought a new bed.. for someone you've been involved with, for 7 mos...?

 

You know.. people change. Her new job.. less evening visits? Why not just enjoy your time spent with her?

 

Or.. are you saying you two aren't physically involved really, anymore?

[3dgain]

I agreed with her the bed was ty I felt like crap but prolly would have just suffered with it ya she is my gf she is 23 I'm 28 I do enjoy my time with her just thought it was a weird why would a bed change someone from cuddling

[Wiseman2]

It wasn't the bed, that's a coincidence. What do mean by "cuddling"? Sex?

just thought it was a weird why would a bed change someone from cuddling

[Zaphod]

I guess all it means with the information we have so far is that she's so knackered after work, she wants to sleep without cuddling, which she feels impedes sleep.

 

Also - honeymoon period over, mate. Although that doesn't mean you'll not cuddle again, it just means a dip in urgency.

 

Just roll with it, see what happens. Let her sleep where and how she wants.

[Zaphod]

What do mean by "cuddling"? Sex?

 

You know. Netflix and chill.

[3dgain]

not Netflix and chill lol I'm over with those days

[Capricorn3]

I guess all it means with the information we have so far is that she's so knackered after work, she wants to sleep without cuddling, which she feels impedes sleep.

That's my guess too. Nothing more, nothing less.