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I am officially not compatible with virgos!

Yeahyayea88

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28 y/o leo/virgo male here and this is my second go around with a different virgo... it just does not work! This one was older 29 (the other was 3 years younger) We were together for 6 months (both) they were very similiar but im going to talk about the most recent which ended last week officially.

 

The entire beginning was mostly great. A few downs but mostly ups but the downs always made us stronger and more understanding of eachother. Then Things got very bumpy this last month.. she was feeling off the whole time and wouldnt tell me what was going on (until day of break up) before everytime when i asked.. she would just say everything was fine.. but her actions said otherwise and i could tell she was distancing. Ie Late response to texts, wouldnt answer the phone but would call back at a later time (She works a lot so i understand that she cant always get back to me). But still 5 hours later can get old quick. plans would suddenly change, everything was on her terms and time, she stopped hanging out as much, no intimacy or me and her time (the few times we hung out was in social settings with friends) She had said a few times she needs to be selfish and put herself first right now and have time to herself, but other than that i was completely in the dark. I definitely tryed fighting for her but that came off annoying and needy, then when i stopped fighting she would say sarcastically how im good at fighting for my love. It emotionally drained me and pushed me away in return. It got to a point where i felt in a limbo.. not sure if i was single or not. I was trying to get a solid answer and that annoyed her and gave her anxiety but me being left in the dark with little communication gave me anxiety. regardless we ended things and ive had a lot of time to think. I do miss her but i wanted her to fight for me even just a little but she let me walk away.

 

 

Today was the first day in a week that we talked and i initiated contact.. everything is still all my fault and she said we will never ever get back together so time to keep moving forward.

 

 

Maybe were just not compatible...

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Edmund Exley Contributor

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If you are categorizing people's personalities and compatibilities by what month/year they are born in... you're gonna have a bad time.

 

There is actually something to it. Im also a Leo on the cusp of Virgo. Scorpions and Cancers are like poison to me and thats said to be of Leos and Scorpios especially, though the sex is beyond mind blowing.

 

OP, a Libra is what you need LOL

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pippy longstocking Grand Master

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Ha was just going to say the same as edmund ...I am very spiritual but just can't get into astrology ..I have tried because I find it so interesting , but it clearly isn't my thing .. however I do enjoy finding out peoples star signs and the character traits that come with that sign .

Funnily enough no matter how many millions have the same character traits my life is evidence enough that certain signs will clash ....

 

cancers and gemini's are drawn to me and vice versa but my god can we rook !!! men and women ..we get on famously but when it goes t1ts up you will know about it .

 

My supposed ideal match is a LEO ..only been out with one and it is the ex that brought me here and we where compatible beyond words .. He was the calm , I was the storm , probably one of the few who could reason with me when I am on one , and the sex was out of this world , the joining of two souls for sure ...

 

I have many Gemini exes and it was so bad with all of them I am actually weary a little bit if a potential partner says they are gems ...

 

But this is all born out of life experience op , so I wouldn't start to avoid any star sign or presume they will be the same ..give everyone in life a fair chance till they prove you otherwise .

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The most painful relationships I've ever had were with people whose sun signs were supposedly compatible with mine... and I have ten friends whose birthday is on the same day. In a sign which is supposedly wildly incompatible.

 

Excuse me if I'm missing something here, but I think relating to healthy people with integrity, whose values chime with yours and hopefully where you might have something in common, is a far better indicator of how your relationships will go than the position of far-flung planets at the point of birth!

 

P.S. Though I once read a horoscope which told me that I have a magnetic personality. This makes me irresistible to men, and to iron filings.

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Wiseman2 Grand Master

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Were you dating exclusively? It sounds like you hanging out too much and she felt suffocated. What was the reason she broke up? It would be best to stay no contact and block her.

We were together for 6 months. I was trying to get a solid answer and that annoyed her and gave her anxiety but me being left in the dark with little communication gave me anxiety. she said we will never ever get back together.
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Were you dating exclusively? It sounds like you hanging out too much and she felt suffocated. What was the reason she broke up? It would be best to stay no contact and block her.

 

 

Yes we were exclusive. And im sure thats the exact reason why she started the distance. Heres the thing though, i need communication and she pretended everything was fine for a month (those were her words) she broke up with me cause i was consistently questioning our relationship but i was consistently questioning our relationship because i knew somethig was up and she was communicating. So i was left in a dark room trying to find a light. I cant be with somebody like that

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