Liking best friend

[Heartbroken239]

Hey friends,

 

I have been friends with this girl for three years. She is extra caring and extra sweet. She literally takes care of me like anything despite me being kind of a jerk. Then a year ago, I got very sick because of my bad habits, she took care of me as usual, and then I started changing bit by bit. I fixed my health, changed my ways and she continued to support me in everything. Recently she asked me if I like her, I told her I think so, and she said she doesn't and I shouldn't think about it ever. Me being me I tell her she shouldn't talk to me again. But I just don't understand how much I should actually believe her, she just broke up with another guy who she actually liked, she is super busy in her life, ( I know everything cuz she tells me everything! ), she knows I am fakingly dating another girl who is madly in love with me and she knows I am very casual about such things.... so should I say sorry to her and make up, or just never talk to her again, or casually pursue her because I know in a week or so she is going to text me no matter what even if I asked her to leave me alone, I know her very well!

[Andrina]

You were in the wrong, so you should apologize. She has no control over who she has romantic chemistry with. She only likes you as a friend so don't pursue her.

[Wiseman2]

What is it you are looking for? To restore the friendship you had or to date her? It sounds like you were hoping to get out of the friendzone using an ultimatum.

 

Why are you faking dating someone and what does that mean? It sounds like you believe all women should adore you even when you act like a jerk? Are you reading pick up artist tips to ruin all your relationships this way?

Recently she asked me if I like her, I told her I think so, and she said she doesn't and I shouldn't think about it ever. Me being me I tell her she shouldn't talk to me again. I am fakingly dating another girl who is madly in love with me

[Heartbroken239]

Restore the friendship - I really don't think I even need to try. Honestly she cares about me way more than I care for her. She literally couldn't stay a few days without texting me when I asked her to stay away!

 

Dating her - yes, she asked me and rejected me plus told me nothing can ever happen, that's annoying and challenging!

 

Fakely dating - Another girl really loves me and I love the way she treats me so I am dating her.

 

Pick up artist tips - I don't know what are those, rather I act naturally and it works more often than not. Tensions create attraction, ignoring, being a bit rude, confusing, creates tension which either breaks or makes. My own good looks help of course! When I am too sweet, my good looks are negated, and things become sedentary which gets me into the friendzone but when I bring back the friction and tensions, girls want to come back and make up and I hold the upper hand.