Am I stubborn or is she too demanding?

[anonomousguy12]

So i'm in a long distance relationship and I do a lot for this girl, I put her first all the time, I write her messages every night about how much I love her and I put her up on my IG (when I don't use the app to post).

 

The other day out of nowhere, she demanded that I put up more pictures of her on my instgaram. The last few pictures I have up are of her and I don't like using the app to post, the only times I have recently are to make her happy. She lost it, she said that i'm not a normal boyfriend because I don't want to make her happy, that i'm stubborn and that I never want to put pictures up of her because she feels like she always has to beg me. I'm nowhere on her social media by the way and she claims that if she could put me on her social media she would.

 

Then the other day I went out with my cousin (who my gf hates) for a 2 drinks and she was sleeping when I went. I forgot to tell her which bar I went to (genuine mistake). The next morning she told me that I didn't tell her what was going on so I apologised and I told her and I said i'll tell you on the phone. As soon as I apologised again on the phone and started telling her she was like I don't want to know tbh, I don't want to waste time arguing over someone so stupid (my cousin). And I never normally say anything when she acts that way but I this time I was like please don't be rude to me and she was like you deserve it.

Then she started getting angry because I don't snapchat her enough, I used to send her videos (like a vlog) snapchat to tell her what i'm doing. I apologised the only reason I stopped is because i've been really stressed out with work lately. I also told her that I don't think she really acknowledged or responded when I did snapchat her. I didn't mention this to her but she puts pictures up on her story all the time and I can't remember the last time she's sent me any snapchat. Then she said I was an angry person and that i'm stubborn and hard to talk to because I didn't tell her and show her that i'm willing to change my approach to messaging her more the second she brought it up. The whole day I was just crying because I couldn't think what i'd done wrong. And she just said at the end of it, that I drag the argument on and that I take the argument off in tangents and i'm the most frustrating person.

 

Btw just today she went out with her friends, didn't tell me she was going and didn't tell me where she was. I just feel so lonely when though i'm with someone because of how she acts. But I keep feeling like I deserve the things she says and how rude she is to me because of the way I act. On the other hand, I don't think I should feel that way because I don't think I am those things?

[Wiseman2]

It would be best not to acquiesce to her unreasonable demands. Do whatever you see fit on your social media and tell her post whatever she wants on hers.

 

No one "Demands what you have to post". That's controlling and insane and the longer you comply the more she'll walk all over you..Delete your IG and SC accounts for now so she has nothing to be a witch about. Why isn't texting/calling enough for this overbearing brat?

 

Why are you allowing yourself to be treated as a prisoner on parole reporting your every move and keystroke to her? It's no surprise she has zero respect for you. Why does your cousin hate her? Maybe you need to listen long and hard to your cousin?

she demanded that I put up more pictures of her on my instgaram. I don't like using the app to post, the only times I have recently are to make her happy.The next morning she told me that I didn't tell her what was going on so I apologised.Then she started getting angry because I don't snapchat her enough

[loly369]

She's excessively demanding!

 

Don't cry over a girl that doesn't deserve you. She's just looking for attention, my honest opinion is that you should end it with her because you're too nice to her and she's being a about it. No one deserves to be treated like she treats you. You deserve better than her.

I hope that this helps a little and good luck

[Andrina]

Too much nonsense drama here. I'd stick to dating locally and be in a joy filled relationship. You're in a toxic virtual reality existence right now. Life's too short.

[Stay_home]

So i'm in a long distance relationship and I do a lot for this girl, I put her first all the time, I write her messages every night about how much I love her and I put her up on my IG (when I don't use the app to post).

 

The other day out of nowhere, she demanded that I put up more pictures of her on my instgaram. The last few pictures I have up are of her and I don't like using the app to post, the only times I have recently are to make her happy. She lost it, she said that i'm not a normal boyfriend because I don't want to make her happy, that i'm stubborn and that I never want to put pictures up of her because she feels like she always has to beg me. I'm nowhere on her social media by the way and she claims that if she could put me on her social media she would.

 

Then the other day I went out with my cousin (who my gf hates) for a 2 drinks and she was sleeping when I went. I forgot to tell her which bar I went to (genuine mistake). The next morning she told me that I didn't tell her what was going on so I apologised and I told her and I said i'll tell you on the phone. As soon as I apologised again on the phone and started telling her she was like I don't want to know tbh, I don't want to waste time arguing over someone so stupid (my cousin). And I never normally say anything when she acts that way but I this time I was like please don't be rude to me and she was like you deserve it.

Then she started getting angry because I don't snapchat her enough, I used to send her videos (like a vlog) snapchat to tell her what i'm doing. I apologised the only reason I stopped is because i've been really stressed out with work lately. I also told her that I don't think she really acknowledged or responded when I did snapchat her. I didn't mention this to her but she puts pictures up on her story all the time and I can't remember the last time she's sent me any snapchat. Then she said I was an angry person and that i'm stubborn and hard to talk to because I didn't tell her and show her that i'm willing to change my approach to messaging her more the second she brought it up. The whole day I was just crying because I couldn't think what i'd done wrong. And she just said at the end of it, that I drag the argument on and that I take the argument off in tangents and i'm the most frustrating person.

 

Btw just today she went out with her friends, didn't tell me she was going and didn't tell me where she was. I just feel so lonely when though i'm with someone because of how she acts. But I keep feeling like I deserve the things she says and how rude she is to me because of the way I act. On the other hand, I don't think I should feel that way because I don't think I am those things?

 

Drop her. Move on. That's what I would do. She sounds nuts.

[j.man]

You're LDR, so you don't even get sex out of it. Why would you put up with this craziness?