Kayley Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 When we were together he was around halfway through my messenger favourites, disappeared when I removed him from facebook. On Saturday, 2 weeks after I removed him from facebook he randomly appears on the top of my messenger favourites. Tried blocking him, updating the app etc but he's still there. It's driving me crazy Seeing him isn't actually bothering me, it's the fear that it's going to make me end up breaking NC. Especially if I'm drinking or whatever. Not that I'm drinking loads but if I'm on a night out, him being there just makes it so easy.... I don't get why he's there when he's not even on my friends list. Such a daft thing but it's bugging me so much! Link to comment
mustlovedogs Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 Tap the 3 dots on the right of the favorites menu. Hide the whole thing Link to comment
Kayley Posted November 17, 2016 Author Share Posted November 17, 2016 it just reappears when I close & re open Link to comment
JaggerJim Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 ] IGNORE! IGNORE! IGNORE! Link to comment
mustlovedogs Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 Ok... Tap and hold your ex. Let go. Click hide on that. Link to comment
Kayley Posted November 17, 2016 Author Share Posted November 17, 2016 ^^ got him off on that app but still comes up if I swipe to the side for the chat on the actual facebook app...someone is screwing with me here! lol Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 To remove a contact from the favorites list, tap the minus button, and choose Unpin. You can manually arrange the order of these contacts by using the handle button to drag and drop them into the order you prefer. When you have finished editing, tap Done to save the changes. Link to comment
Kayley Posted November 17, 2016 Author Share Posted November 17, 2016 I have no one pinned there....they all seem to have been set automatically? I'm useless with this lol. Should he even be showing up if we aren't facebook friends? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 You don't have to be friends to message. Remove him from the messaging app. Should he even be showing up if we aren't facebook friends? Link to comment
Fudgie Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 Facebook messenger looks through your phones contact list and pulls those numbers and then anyone who had their phone number in your contact list AND on FB shows up in your FB messenger list, even if you aren't friends. Go through your contacts make sure his number is completely erased. Even if you have it in there under a pseudonym or something, get rid of it. Link to comment
Kayley Posted November 18, 2016 Author Share Posted November 18, 2016 not in my contacts either :S I deleted him to stop myself from messaging Link to comment
Kayley Posted November 18, 2016 Author Share Posted November 18, 2016 I did & he still came up on messenger! I've never had this happen before...I give up, I'm going to use messenger loads to contact people & hopefully he'll disappear :S Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted November 19, 2016 Share Posted November 19, 2016 Day 19 & harder than ever. I temporarily put his number back in my phone today (I have it written down because I'm just not ready to be done with... ^ This is a quote from one of your posts which was posted today... Link to comment
Kayley Posted November 19, 2016 Author Share Posted November 19, 2016 ^^ yeah but his number was back in my phone for a of about 15 minutes before I realised I was being crazy &I that was yesterday. I deleted his number the same day I removed him from facebook then a week later he appeared on my favourites. Link to comment
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