SeaBisquit Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 Hello, I broke up with my ex about a year ago..he stays in contact with me daily says he wants to get back with me. He has a girlfriend living with him for 3 montjs. He says he can't stand his new girlfriend and wants her gone. He's been buying me gifts and bringing them to my house..it's hard to stay no contact with him because his mom and my mom are friends. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 Obviously he's trying to have you as a side dish, while he continues to live with his girlfriend. Of course this wouldn't be possible without your assistance, therefore what is your goal here? As for going "no contact" it's quite simple, either you'll find a way, or you'll find an excuse. It's all about choices which you have complete control of. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 Tell him you don't cheat and stop sending gifts or contacting you. That you find it creepy in general and that he is cheating in particular. Stand up for yourself unless you secretly crave this attention. Where's your current bf? Your parents are friends but that doesn't make it cool for you to encourage cheating. He has a girlfriend living with him for 3 montjs. He's been buying me gifts and bringing them to my house..it's hard to stay no contact with him because his mom and my mom are friends. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Why do you keep asking this question? I think you have already been advised to leave him alone. Link to comment
j.man Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Wow what a pessimistic crowd here! I think he just wants to bring a bottle of moscato and watch "10 Things I Hate About You" and have a gentle cry with the purist of intentions. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Block the fecker for crying out loud , you are choosing to accept the gifts and take his calls ! read your own words from october All I can say is somehow I survived it. I survived being cheated on several times, lied to and all the emotional abuse. He even told me he hates his new girlfriend and wishes we could get back together. I realize it's just another form of punishment...blah... Link to comment
j.man Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Block the fecker for crying out loud , you are choosing to accept the gifts and take his calls ! read your own words from octoberPippy.... that pic... I'll be back in about two minutes, guys. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Pippy.... that pic... I'll be back in about two minutes, guys. oh my god I am literally crying here Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Tell him you don't cheat and stop sending gifts or contacting you. That you find it creepy in general and that he is cheating in particular. Stand up for yourself unless you secretly crave this attention. Where's your current bf? Your parents are friends but that doesn't make it cool for you to encourage cheating. ^ This is worth repeating ...only this time in bold ... Link to comment
SooSad33 Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Whollay! Talk about an attention getter! So he has a new gf.. still wanting to carry on with an ex? Values! Is this the kind of man you want in your life??? How about if you were her? Link to comment
boltnrun Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 "Today my ex tells me that I brought him and his new he closer. Then he says he can't decide between the two of us and he just can't break up with her because it would hurt her." This is from August. You're still unsure what to do? How about you have some self-respect and stop letting this lying cheater jerk you around? And who cares if your moms are friends! You can still tell him to knock it off. Or better yet, tell his mom! Unless, of course, you see him trying to get you to cheat with him as a sign he "loves" you... Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Yep, imagine what he did behind her back. So he has a new gf.. still wanting to carry on with an ex? Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted November 16, 2016 Author Share Posted November 16, 2016 I didn't understand why he was giving me gifts..I didn't cheat with him..I was just trying to end things in a civilized manner hoping to erase a bunch of bad memories from my brain..I'm sure the new girlfriend feels like she walked into hell. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 19, 2016 Share Posted November 19, 2016 I'm sure the new girlfriend feels like she walked into hell. ] Link to comment
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