Jealous?

[Amanda1]

I have been in my current relationship for four months now and right now everything is going well. The only thing is that this boyfriend had been in a relationship before me and that had lasted two years. I cannot stop myself from slightly obsessing over her by looking her up online because they spent from age 15 to 17 together. From our mutual friends I get to know things about her and I try stop myself from asking but I've found that I cannot help it. Somehow I need to stop myself from doing it because it is making me unhappy and may tear my relationship apart, but I do not know how to do this. Is this normal?

[Wiseman2]

Do you think he's using you as a rebound or will go back to her? How long was he broken up before you got with him?

this boyfriend had been in a relationship before me and that had lasted two years.they spent from age 15 to 17 together.

[Amanda1]

I have no idea why I am doing this. I just get the urge of wanting to know. They had broke up three months prior to our relationship and we had been seeing each other for one of those three.

[Wiseman2]

So he was cheating? That may be why you are suspicious and why you fell like a rebound and that he may bounce back to her.

They had broke up three months prior to our relationship and we had been seeing each other for one of those three.