Loveart Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 So wondering why a guy would pull out right before finishing if there are no birth control issues? Do some men like doing this? Maybe it was an accident that it happened this way? Just wondering what might be the reason. Thanks! Link to comment
WithLove Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Perhaps he's just used to doing it as a birth control method? (spoiler: it's not 100% effective) Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Was he wearing condoms this time? Ones that fit? If not he may not trust that you are on birth control.So wondering why a guy would pull out right before finishing if there are no birth control issues? Link to comment
DancingFool Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Added insurance against a "whoops". But really....people who use the pull out method as birth control are called parents. Link to comment
j.man Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 "No birth control issues" meaning what? That you're on the pill? Unless one or the other is medically diagnosed as definitively infertile, nobody should be blowing loads into someone without a condom unless they're ready for mini-mes. Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Added insurance against a "whoops". But really....people who use the pull out method as birth control are called parents. Yes yes yes yes 1000 x yes. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 So you are saying he is ok with no birth control ie you are both happy should pregnancy happen ? He then pulled out ..meaning ..he ISN'T happy at taking the chance . How ever that is no protection against pregnancy anyway to be honest . Link to comment
Loveart Posted November 14, 2016 Author Share Posted November 14, 2016 He is not able to have kids so that is why I was confused about why he would do that. No condoms anymore. Not that we didn't try a bunch but it wasn't working and we've both been tested. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Agree. He may have had women "swear" before they are on bc only for them to text down the road that they are "late". He may be gun-shy. Is he wearing a condom And pulling out?"No birth control issues" meaning what? That you're on the pill? Unless one or the other is medically diagnosed as definitively infertile, nobody should be blowing loads into someone without a condom unless they're ready for mini-mes. Link to comment
happyfrank Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 100% proof that you will not be father. I also do it while wearing condom. I don't want be part of that 1% that are fathers right now. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Are you sure he is totally infertile? Some guys will say things that aren't true to get sex the way they want it. If you want him to finish inside you tell him that. He may have watched to much porn and think that is what women like. Talk to him, tell him what you want. Lost Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Maybe he's lying? Have you asked why he still uses withdrawal? What bc are you on?He is not able to have kids so that is why I was confused about why he would do that. No condoms anymore. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 He is not able to have kids so that is why I was confused about why he would do that. No condoms anymore. Not that we didn't try a bunch but it wasn't working and we've both been tested. oh.... that's my theory out of the window then .. Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 I wasn't finishing inside anyone unless I was 100% OK with the chance of having a child with them. BC or not. Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Perhaps he enjoys ejaculating on you instead of in you. Some guys like the visual effect which is why porn makes such a deal of the "Money Shot" Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Perhaps he enjoys ejaculating on you instead of in you. Some guys like the visual effect which is why porn makes such a deal of the "Money Shot" That is the only other reason I can think of , or he is telling porkies about his fertility . You don't have to answer this op lol but if he is pointing it somewhere else for the money shot then I suspect that is what turns him on . Link to comment
Loveart Posted November 14, 2016 Author Share Posted November 14, 2016 I don't think he would lie about his fertility. He has said from the start he doesn't want kids and he knows I'm not on bc. That's why we started out w condoms as that is my normal route especially early before tests are discussed. Can someone please elaborate on the "money shot"? I don't watch porn...lol I also thought maybe it was an accident that that happened. Like not intentional. I guess time will tell Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Maybe that's the best way he knows to finish himself off. . Why don't you ask him. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 money shot means the cum shot... Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 I would wonder how he knows he is infertile. Did he have a vasectomy? Do you want children? A guy can have a low sperm count and may think they can't make a baby but all it takes is one swimmer to get through. I would ask how exactly he knows he is sterile. Since you are not a birth control this is a very important question... Lost Link to comment
JaggerJim Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 I wouldn't blow my load into anyone either. The woman would have to ask ME if I was ready for a baby. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 I wouldn't blow my load into anyone either. The woman would have to ask ME if I was ready for a baby. blow my load lolllin Link to comment
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