Ok I really don't know what to do

[SeaBisquit]

Hello, I'm having some problems with a past boyfriend. We were in a good relationship but now things are really messed up. I left him awhile ago and know he wants me back. We were togethet only a short time because I had bad faimily oroblems. Now he tells me he wants to get back together but he is living with someone else. He says that they fight all the time and she has 2 kids and the kids mis behave all the time. He told me he has asked her to move out several times but she won't do it. They work together and he says he doesn't want to look bad at work.He told me he was filing a notice to get her to move out. Today he told me he's exhauasted from her and didn't get the notice. I don't know if he's telling the truth that it's hard to get someone out of his home. He told me today to follow my heart that he doesn't want to hurt me. I told him I can't see him when he's living with her..this has been going on for 3 months. He calls me daily and sees me several times a week..I just need to find out if he's making excuses.

[Wiseman2]

He wants to cheat with you, not get back together. This is just a twist on "my wife doesn't understand me". Cut him off asap.

Now he tells me he wants to get back together but he is living with someone else.They work together and he says he doesn't want to look bad at work.

[Ms Darcy]

You are not thinking reasonably. He is an ex who is living with someone else. Put your thinking cap on. Run away from this guy.

[pinkprincess]

If he really wanted her out it would not take 3 months. He is getting what he wants from her but is probably not too fussed on having some other mans kids under his roof especially ones that misbehave. You would be his release from the pressures at home. It is the same scenario that married men make ' me and my wife live separate lives and are no longer intimate we are together for convenience etc etc etc'

 

Just make it clear that you need to cut ties whilst he has this other woman living in his house