Sarah3000 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 Okay so i met a bloke about a YEAR ago (yes thats right) one night we bumped into eachother however me and him never actually spoke.... i spoke to his friends and his friend and my friend hooked up that night...so he sent me a friend request on facebook and we started chatting before we exchanged numbers Now to cut a long story short whenever it came down to actually meeting he would make an excuse before hand so i thought to myself do u know what stop wasting my time, i told him all of this when he said for me to message him out the blue and we could arrange something i just thought no way He continued to message and i did ignore for a while before i started replying to him...sometimes sarcastically (going along with his rubbish) and sometimes like friends...he always said i switched behaviour when i drank alcohol (which is true i just got annoyed at him and felt like he was messaging me like a penpal) i forgot to mention he lives about a 5 min walk from my house (we both live in same area) yet we dont really cross paths but we know of mutual friends Anyways i decided to not reply to him anymore and during this time i found out he got back with his babymother, to which he is now single again he has now poked me on facebook,added me to instagram and i literally joined a dating site again and he was on there and messaged me on that!!! I had to block him, he has also liked a picture of me that went up on my friends instagram (a group shot but it was a nice one of me for once) Just i do not understand this guys behaviour he does everything to get my attention but doesnt seem to want to take me out on a date ?? What is the actual point can someone help me? Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 Apparently there is some pay off for him or he wouldn't do it. How about you block him a dozen different ways and he'll find someone else to mess with? Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 You're better off without him wanting to take you out. He has babymamma drama and is flakey in his attention to you. Just ignore his "likes" and "tags" and anything else to do with social media. If he doesn't ask you out in person then it's just social media fluff that means nothing. Link to comment
Sarah3000 Posted November 7, 2016 Author Share Posted November 7, 2016 I have blocked him on the dating site and blocked him from facebook messenger and also whatsapp?? If he likes Me like makes out he does then why doesnt he act on it, does he get some weird kick out of behaving this way? Normally someone who would want to contact me would back it up? Its a shame coz i do think he is alright and i would meet him Its just down to his behaviour why we havent? But now he says i hold a grudge *eye rolls* Link to comment
Sarah3000 Posted November 7, 2016 Author Share Posted November 7, 2016 Do u think its because of the baby mother why he doesnt meet? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 Easy hookups. Since you took the bait a couple times he figured he'd try again during a dry spell.Just i do not understand this guys behaviour he does everything to get my attention but doesnt seem to want to take me out on a date ?? What is the actual point can someone help me? Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 Do u think its because of the baby mother why he doesnt meet? No way to know. Details as to why are not important. Stick to the facts. He doesn't want to meet. He does want to play games for attention. Link to comment
Sarah3000 Posted November 7, 2016 Author Share Posted November 7, 2016 Games for attention wow what a sad pathetic bloke!!! Really annoyed me coz i fell for it what man wants to stick behind his phone than rather try and get laid? Weird Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 Who knows why? But all I can say is that without real life dates, it's just all talk. So if a guy isn't meeting you, cut him off asap. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 Maybe he just likes you as a pen pal but not for anything else. Just keep ignoring him. Or, if you have the confidence, ask him to meet with you again and if he says no then block and delete the twit. Link to comment
Sarah3000 Posted November 7, 2016 Author Share Posted November 7, 2016 Yeh we have asked eachother enough times now it just doesnt lead anywhere , you could sadly be right in him just wanting a penpal as it gives him that attention he needs to make him feel wanted, and he is on off with his babymother. I just frel like i have been laughed at by him? And if he just wants to be penpals that makes me feel ugly Link to comment
notalady Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 I just frel like i have been laughed at by him? And if he just wants to be penpals that makes me feel ugly Who cares? Why do you care about what this guy thinks? He's no one to you. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 Get the last laugh. Block him from everything.I just frel like i have been laughed at by him? Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 No need to feel ugly because some wanker who has baby momma drama isn't asking you out. By not asking you out, he's doing you a huge favor particularly if he's "off and on" with her. Forget him... there are way better men out there then a guy who keeps going back to the woman he got pregnant but he's not marrying her. Surely you can see that? Link to comment
chitown9 Posted November 8, 2016 Share Posted November 8, 2016 Games for attention wow what a sad pathetic bloke!!! Really annoyed me coz i fell for it what man wants to stick behind his phone than rather try and get laid? Weird I will answer that question. He is behaving in a way in which he is doing only what is comfortable for him. Apparently, anything beyond what he has done is all he is capable of, and that is not acceptable to you. chi Link to comment
Sarah3000 Posted November 8, 2016 Author Share Posted November 8, 2016 Thanks chi....bizarre behaviour from a young bloke i just havent come across this before.... Link to comment
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